I’m looking for a sex toy - it’s not my first, I’ve had two bullet vibrators before. Basically I’m looking for one or two toys that are really good - not looking to build a whole kit, at least while I’m on low income, so ideally one or two toys that can make me happy me for a lifetime.
Preferred material: 100% silicone or soft plastic/real feel cyberskin
Power source: USB ideally
Noise level: Anything that’s not super loud/hearable through (thin) walls or doors
Settings & speeds: The more, the better
Waterproof?: Yes
Clitoral suction?: Yes
Erogenous zones: Clit and G-spot, ideally dual stimulation
Frequency: Lower (rumbly)
Budget: Ideally below £100, can be higher though if it’s an AMAZING toy
I know I love both clitoral stimulation and penetration/G-spot stimulation and so ideally want a toy that combines both, two-in-one. So far, Womanizer X Lovehoney InsideOut Rechargeable G-Spot and Clitoral Stimulator has grabbed my attention, but I’ve never bought sex toys online before, so would love your thoughts!
One of the major critiques of the two in one (womanizer duo/inside out, for example) is that your enjoyment is really locked into whether the toy matches your anatomy. For some folks, if it aligns on the clit it doesn’t align where you want inside, or vice versa.
I think we’ve had 4 different rabbit style vibes in our house and 2 of them have really fit well and hit the right spots, and two haven’t.
So while it may be a faff to buy two, it is long-term more flexible to find what really works for you. Of course, LH’s guarantee is pretty solid, but don’t tell me returning and exchanging isn’t a bit of a faff, too.
And then I’d also just say, someday budget might not be as much a concern and you can spend some real money upgrading the components that you love.
I have both the InsideOut and the Duo 2. When I got the InsideOut I loved it and it still is fabulous but for me the Duo 2 100% wins out mainly just for the more girthy G-Spot arm. They both “fit” me very well which is always the risk with rabbit style toys but I think these do have quite a bit of adaptability as the base of the arm is so flexible so they will fit a lot more bodies than firmer built designs.
In terms of the suction toy that by default and for a quick guarenteed fix I reach for the Melt comes in ahead, mainly I think because the “head” on it fits me better than any of the Womanizer ones.
You can read my review for the Duo 2 here if helpful to you and I can hopefully answer any questions you have about it or the InsideOut (which being 25% off currently, I can see as appealing!)
