Cock rings in bedroom for couple advice

Looking for some advice on cock rings,are they any good, and what do they bring to the bedroom fun…Trying to spice things up in bedrooms wife seems to be having all the fun
Do both parties get benefit from it ,what do couples get out of using one, or what toy would you recommend for a wife to use on me in the bedroom

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They help you maintain a stronger erection, if used with a partner there are vibrating version, which are designed to stimulate your partner clit.

We have found that the vibrating ones are usually quite bulky and do not always hit the spot, the simpler ones, help maintain a strong erection, which might feel different to your partner, it will also allow you to go longer or multiple times.

Enjoy experimenting.

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I am interested in this topic as well. My wife suggested a cock ring when she suggested I get her a “Rose” - the Rose has been absolutely amazing for her, and do really enjoy watching what it does to her, but the cock ring didn’t really do anything for me. I tried it a couple of time, for some reason the loop under my balls never stays where it is supposed to hahaha, It might have made me a little bigger, but only slightly, it did make me last a little longer, but when I did go, I barely felt it (even more than rubbers).
So if there is a trick to them, then I am all ears :slight_smile:

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I tried to use a cock ring to help me maintain a erection due to having problems with ED. Personally I found them difficult to get on due to lube being on the erection after using a penis pump. Did a little but could not get on with it. Good luck its worth a go though.

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I’ve tried on a number of times in the past, though last time was maybe about 10 years ago now.
I’ve never had any erection issues, or issues with finishing prematurely (thanks porn!), and addressing these are some of the main benefits of a cock ring… so maybe I’m not best placed to answer the question.
Personally, I didn’t really like it. It made the feeling in my dick less sensitive (kind of the point), which I didn’t really like because why would I want to use something which took away pleasure?
Once I also got the ones with the bunny ears for clit stimulation for her, but the ring kept shifting, and by the very nature of penetrative sex (ie in and out, in and out) this meant that it wasn’t contacting her for very long so she didn’t get much from it. Plus as mentioned above, we found it a little bulky. I turned it upside down once so that the ears vibrates on my balls a little, but it was too directed and it started to feel a little uncomfortable.
So I didn’t like it, but some others obviously do.
So, to conclude, as with most sex toys you may love it or you may hate it, but they’re cheap so worth having a go and finding out. It’s the only way to tell.

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Yes i have tried rings for premature probs,but can never find one thats fits properly to work.

Omg - they are one of the best inventions ever

They maintain and promote a strong hard erection and the vibrating type also give us woman pleasure too

Personally I always put it on my man as this helps his penis being hard to start

A remote one is better as it’s easy to control the vibration and pattern

Just make sure it’s well charged

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From a female perspective, we like ours, he says similar to what others have said with lasting longer. Whether that’s because he goes numb I don’t know. He doesn’t have pre existing issues with ED or PE so we use it purely for fun.
He used ones previously that he found didn’t sit right, but we have one now from LH that vibrates and has two loops which keeps it in place.
I think he enjoys the sensations but I do think he uses it mostly for me, as he will grind more instead of thrust, drags the session out more and loves to give me another orgasm after he’s finished by just watching me fall apart under him without doing anything. When I’ve asked though he does say he enjoys it so maybe it’s down to personal preference or just getting the right one for you.

If you aren’t getting along with cock rings OR you are just wanting something for you to enjoy then I think butt plugs would be another option to try, so much out there now and using a butt plug that vibrates and accessing the prostate is a whole new level, or so I have witnessed :joy:
I mention this as it’s something you can use during PIV which is what I read your post as what you were after. Maybe you’ve already tried it so do ignore me if you’ve been there done that….but if not maybe try it solo first… in my experience by what I have witnessed on my OH’s discoveries, combining PIV with butt stuff is the shortest route to cumtown, even if you have great stamina :joy:

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Maybe one them adjustable cock rings might be a fun thing to try out and have your wife take control of :slightly_smiling_face:

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I am still on the lookout for the best one.
I agree they are great at keeping me hard, but can’t find one that’s perfect for both of us to use.
Any suggestions on which ones to buy would be brilliant please.

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We’ve got this one it’s great,strong vibrations . Give me a harder erection and the misses loves it as she feels the vibrations through me lol

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For me personally it’s purely for looks, makes me very thick and veiny, we haven’t really tried and vibrating ones as we have plenty of other toys that are much more for specific areas that mrstoysrus likes

Been considering the tracey cox one myself

Will have to invest in one​:+1:t2::+1:t2:

They did sell a 50 Shades of Grey ring with rabbit ears that was good.

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depends on the ring. theres ones with vibrators on them which will benefit both but if its just a ring then there isnt much for the non wearer apart from any extra time / little bit of girth maybe

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Wanted to test one without buying but don’t get chosen for anything anymore. Following this thread…

Yes, can help both of you.
How you use it/them and what type/style/material can be very hit and miss and you may buy many before you find the best style you.
People often buy ones that are too big so perform poorly possibly as theres often only one size, personally i like a metal version that sits behind the balls round everything also sometimes using a silicone one on my shaft though the right size metal one on my shaft would be great too(misplaced mine) it can make the difference from disappointing myself to a happy wife.
I have the lh one that goes round the shaft and divides the balls its only one size, this limits its performance as its not quite right for me, quite some experimenting will be required id say

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Think i would be to scared trying a metal one

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Dont be, buy, not from lh, a two part one like mine is in two parts that are held together by a screw or two, very secure and very essy to remove

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