For the people who watch porn! im sure plenty of you do(especially edited on here)… Watching porn together is completely different with my oh. She doesn’t even masterbaite nevermind watch porn on her own, yet likes watching amateur hard fucking when in the mood… Does anyone else’s subjects change while with the oh?
No I do not watch it, no I am not lying. You should not assume all men do watch it.
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My apologies
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Do you realise there are aesexual men who don’t watch porn? Not all men watch porn and I’ve met quite a few men who don’t. What you said can honestly be damaging and make a man who doesn’t watch porn feel like they are doing something wrong. I don’t really get the point of this post. I’m not sure what you are asking?
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I never meant to offend anyone, im sorry for doing so. I guess I worded the wrong way.
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Didn’t mean to tar all men with the same brush.
What?
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I didn’t mean to offend by saying all men watch porn. I wrongly worded and should have said for the men who do watch porn.
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My original point was asking that men who watch porn casually for a quick one alone do they change their view on it if watching with OH who never does on her own but likes to watch together in situations like romantic time together
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If you’re trust level 1 or higher, you still have time to edit your original post 
I think I understand what you were asking, but you made some generalizations that may have offended people. My husband is also a man who doesn’t watch porn.
If you edit your post, make sure it’s inclusive - here’s a reminder from the forum rules 
Keep topics open to everyone, without singling out a specific group of members. Topics directed to a limited number of forum members like “ladies, what do you think” are not allowed.
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We’re the other way around, I watch porn on my own but my OH doesn’t - he says he’d rather have me! 
I’m flattered! On the occasions when we watch it together, we tend to watch lesbian or MFF porn because that’s what he prefers, I still enjoy watching it but it wouldn’t be something I would watch on my own. To be honest, I only like watching it with him because I like watching him get turned on which then turns me on!
And yes, do edit your post if you can. Maybe something like … those of you who watch porn, do you change what you watch when you’re with your partner? I know what you mean and I imagine quite a lot of people would make the assumption that you have made but it’s not always the case.
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It’s all good, no worries forgotten about.
I think it differs quite a lot, I have dated girls who like to watch it and girls who hate it. Many years ago you’d have porn films that had quite a good story line the build up to the sex scenes made you appreciate those scenes more so as they were in line with the story, not all of them I hasten to add many were pretty bad, very bad in fact.
Today is a lot different, there are now companies who only shoot “Ethical” porn, in other words the performers are well looked after. Some porn shoots are also made by women who make sure that female viewers are able to enjoy the content.
As you are aware I don’t watch it, if I had a partner who wanted to as she enjoyed it, then yes of course I would, but for me it’s not a big a deal.
As with @Kitty-Cat01 The only partner I ever watched porn with was with someone who enjoyed knowing that I was getting aroused by the content. But that was porn films with a reasonably good story line.
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Watched porn with every partner except for my wife and we have the best sexual chemistry.
Maybe since I’ve came out as bicurious, we might try some watching together. She loves solo male masturbation videos and I enjoy watching men cum so we should have a good time
We occasionally do, we both watch a lot seperately however
My husband doesn’t watch porn but I do occasionally usually when I’m very horny. We have never watched it together.
We very rarely watch porn together. The missus has said it doesn’t really do a lot for her. Me on the other hand I watch it all the time and she knows and doesn’t care
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We occasionally watch porn together, we both love girl on girl videos so sometimes show one another if we find a video we think the other one would really like.
I love women group sex videos without all of the bad acting involved at the beginning where as he prefers just two women and lots of talking involved.
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My husband and and I would watch some fairly vanilla porn together. We recently started talking about our sex life and things exploded. I now know it’s OK to let my desires known and we watch some really crazy things together. That being said we both have things that turn us on more than the other so when we are apart we do watch different things.
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I used to watch porn occasionally on my own and one day told the wife I had watched it. She wasn’t very impressed, so I no longer watch it and I don’t really miss watching it. It’s not something the wife is into so we’ve never watched it together.
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We love watching porn to get us in the mood when we are tired or have been manic and need some us time.
I always get her to pick the porn though as I could be searching and watching hours of porn while it’s normally pretty late etc ha
But still… couple watching porn is a 