This is so much a thing me and the O/H are super keen to try but it gets to the moment and I just can’t follow thru , any tips please
There’s a similar post to this on the forum at the moment and it seems that this is quite common.
Before you actually orgasm the idea of cleaning up afterwards seems like a great idea but as soon as you actually orgasm the feeling goes away.
Basically you just have to push on through the lethargy and get on with it.
Check out this recent thread for some suggestions.
There’s a few threads in here all ready if you search but we started by kissing after oral but before you cum! That way your still as horny as you were when you started from there move forward with going down on here mid PIV session, you’ll get used to the “flavour” of yourself!
After that try pulling out and cumming on her pussy but not in her then go down on her again…… you get where this is going .
Try kissing after you have cum in her mouth and she has swallowed (amazing btw) then kissing her when she still has some on her face and lips etc ……. Next step could either be a snowball kiss (when she still has your load in her mouth or go for the cream pie
There’s a few other tricks when you get to that stage too (her on top, then sitting on your face as soon as you have cum etc)
Don’t rush it though and just do it step at a time it’s worth every second
I see no issue with it - as a woman my husband enjoys clean up time - anal or vaginal - I like it a lot
Don’t hold back if you are a woman just open your legs and if you are the man - you made the mess now clean up
Love the assertiveness
Tell her right when sexy time starts that you want to clean her up but will need some encouragement. Not much hotter than your OH telling you to get down there and lick her clean.
Honestly, when it comes to following through you’re better off getting her to lead.
Men often lose the inhibition after climax, if you let her lead you into it then you’ll be more eager to please and just go through it.
But do push yourself to try it, it’s fantastic!
If you come in your partner whilst she’s on top just get her immediately move up on to your face . Then there’s no chance for you to think about it
Yes,getting her to immediately sit on your face after you have filled her i found was the way.Especially if she is pretty vocal too in her demands to “clean me up” or “get used to the taste you’ll be doing this regularly now you cum eating sissy”.Also a bit of role play can be used.Sometimes we will wait a few minutes to recover a little before wife leaving the bedroom.Upon her return she will act like she has just returned from a girls night out where she got laid.She will then sit on my face and “force” me to clean her as she describes her naughty adventures.
Clean up as in you licking it up? I tend to find soon as climax happens all urges dissipate fast… not entirely sure what to advise to keep the spice going on longer to follow through
It’s like a lot of things,little steps at a time,eventually it happens regular and it’s great.Understand what you mean though,can take a while as urge used to dissapear sometimes even before last shot so to speak.
I wish I had sound advice for cream pie cleanup , but I can not remember back the forty plus years ago before I started doing it . Once I am in my sexual activity mode , it cums to me automatically . Hope you can get past whatever is holding you back . I have licked clean several women over the four plus decades and never found one that did not love it and many orgasmed while I was performing my tongue clean up .
Depends if you like the taste, and if you can get past the gagging stage! I’m pretty used to it with my OH either cleaning up my own mess or someone else’s!
Took me a while to enjoy my own come. Licking up a wet pussy of both juices was one of the ways that got me into the taste
Don’t over think it. I cleaned up my wife this weekend. We were so into our love making session that when I came I was not thinking that is what I wanted to do I just did it. Wife was still super horny and wanted to cum more and I was still horny but flaccid. There are so many times for me that after I cum I am still so into the moment and enjoy kissing her body, I just naturally gravitate down. She gets super turned on by it as well.
As others have mentioned the sexual tension before climax makes it sexy. Then after climax the urge goes. Many many years ago I had this same issue, in the end it was overcome by me partially cumming, but not finishing. After a few moments and a small rest the urge was still there and she pleasured me at the point of her orgasm.
Just do it or get her to initiate you doing it.
I’d love to do this! The best way is to ruin your orgasm whilst having penetrative sex. I always go floppy and tired after sex but have eaten my own cum after a ruined orgasm no problem.
The wife’s Reverse cowgirl and then reverse on to my face - just no stopping her