Anyone with any doubts as to the degree of cross dressing taking place just carefully bring it into the conversation in the pub after a few pints.With inhibitions down you soon find just about everyone has done it once,half more than once and at least 20% regularly or wishing they could do it more!I wear lingerie under my work clothes and at home everyday.A few times a month at home i dress as a French Maid or a Sissy Princess.I also wear normal dresses in the home a couple of times a month.For me it feels wonderful and relaxing and takes away the stresses of the day.As for the level of horniness when the stockings,suspenders,baby dolls and sexy stuff is on it goes through the roof.I am so glad there are more people realising it is only clothing after all,but,clothing which makes many of us guys and their OH’s so happy.Plus,anyone needing to take a blue pill now and again just put on a bra,panties,stockings etc.Some complain of headaches after a blue pill,the only headache you’ll get when dressed up is when your hard-on flies up and hits you in the face 
@HappyInPanties I think you’re completely spot on there. I wear thongs (male fit) everyday, no matter the outfit or occasion and given how readily available they are to buy these days, more guys must be wearing them then what let on. I’m just in a position how to approach the subject to tell my mates that I wear them. I think most won’t care or make a joke, that’s it. I love wearing them and I really don’t care what others think about it.
You’re right when it comes to crossdressing as well. All my friends have done it at one time or another for “fancydress” but I’m sure like me, some will wear female clothes in the safety of their homes. I’d be surprised if they had as many outfits, or multiple pairs of thigh high boots like me but I’m sure they’d think the same about me haha.
Yes,a few of my close friends know and all of them say the same thing,they dress on a regular basis.Some it’s a pair of panties now and then,others full-on lingerie.Just one said that he’d done it before a “couple of times for fancy dress” but he did admit he loved it and that he’s going to start again as he is now single at the moment.As we lovers of the lace surmise,it’s a lot more common than people think.
I know it’s an old thread, but I thought it deserved another outing. I’ve read lots of the posts and can relate to a lot of them. I’ve been cross dressing ever since I can remember, starting off by sneaking into my sisters room and borrowing her underwear. That turned into secretly borrowing her underwear, dresses, skirts and my particular favourite at the time was her school uniform. I’m 53 now and have lots of my own femme clothes and lingerie but nothing beats borrowing something from my wife. Luckily she doesn’t mind and likes me crossdressing. The older I get the more I want to do it and the more daring I get wearing lingerie under my everyday clothes when going out
. I also love it on here because I can actually talk to other people about it, nobody else knows apart from my OH
I’ve been Crossdressing since my early teens… My sister had a beautiful white communion dress that was far too small, but I gave it a go…
Currently live alone so can do what I like when I like.
I regularly wear lingerie under my everyday clothes out and about.
A few weeks ago I went for a country walk, it was early morning so not many folks about.
I had a basque, thong and stockings under my regular clothes and took my camera with me in case of any photo opportunities… Yes i did manage a few pics… 
I wear lingerie all the time these days and at home on days off i wear skirts,dresses etc.I feel so happy and liberated doing so.Plus the wife realised a long time ago i am still the same person but a lot more happy,relaxed and loving as well as horny and ready for sex all the time.
That’s pretty much exactly where I want to be, wearing skirts and dresses just to relax at home rather than waiting til she’s a bit horny before I wear them. I do wear lingerie most of the time at home though, just need to go to that next step.
You’ll get there i’m sure and when you do it really does feel wonderful wearing a nice dress or skirt. 
I do wear skirts and dresses, but when I’m on my own, but funnily enough, I’ve just had a session with the mrs and I went and put a skirt on with bra and knickers and it went down very well. She had a French maid outfit on. I’m a bit away from wearing a skirt or dress in front of her just because I feel like it though.
I’m just starting out.
I wear women’s knickers and a silicone gaff all the time and I add stockings and suspenders or a suspender Basque or waspie whenever I’m getting pegged, whipped or whatever the activity is.
I much prefer to be feminised for any sexual activity.
Thx 
Hi, new to the forums but ive been dressing secretly for years since a young teen. Ever since i opened mums knickers draw by accident and was amazed at all the thongs and g strings. Found
Her lingerie in her bottom draw and ever since, everytime i was home alone ide go and dress up. Even started using my sisters had especially
Her leggings and thongs and bodysuits. Present moment i hardly have the chance to dress up these days but love slipping the odd pair of knickers on. The feeling is like nothing else. Like many others ive had it all and purged and thrown it all away incase i was caught. Always that embarrassment laying in the back of your mind of what would happen if you where caught by someone
@Pantiefanatic
It’s wonderful to find a man who is happy to wear lingerie and i highly recommend you embrace your fantasies- my husband always wanted to wear my lingerie and one drunken night he asked to wear my used knickers- as he slipped them on I saw on his face how he felt - so from that moment I embraced him to throw away his boring pants and we went shopping for knickers he could wear
Since then he wears knickers every day and stockings and suspenders most days - and they look wonderful
He also has other lingerie and outfits such as maid / secretary/ schoolgirl which I love him wearing
I say to be more open about what you want to wear - remember you have 1 life so do what you want as it won’t hurt anyone
Tell us more about yourself - you married, what’s your age and what are your fantasies 
Hello @Pantiefanatic , welcome to the forum. My story sounds a lot like yours, putting together a collection of lingerie, throwing it all away, but it always draws you back and before you know it you have another collection again. I’ve been gently easing my wife into getting to know this side of me for the last 12 months, I’ve kept it secret for all this time, but about a month ago I told her the whole story. I expected her to shout and scream, but she didn’t, turns out she’s absolutely fine with it and actually enjoys it, and is actually helping me with things. Wish I’d told her years ago.