Hi, hope this is okay
I had foreplay with my OH in past few days and on sitting on his face following lots foreplay before hand I came really quickly.
He has not stopped talking about that he was not expecting it and it went up his nose and cannot stop tasting it for the rest of the day. He repetitively raised it but clearly not in an enjoyable way. I have always been quite experimental about trying things but for me sitting on someones face I been nervous about its almost all my sexual experience. Only in past month have got the confidence. Now really put off and feel almost been shamed for it. Dont know how to move forward.
@MrsSmith69
You really shouldn’t be ashamed of your enjoyment and the result of it
Are you sure he’s complaining or is it just his way of bringing up the subject again?
In my opinion there’s nothing like that lingering smell of pussy on my fingers or lips after masturbation or oral sex
I would certainly have enjoyed the experience myself I really miss my wife sitting on my face
I think you might be reading too much into his response, I have to admit I have responded in a similar way with an old gf but she was also American so she wasn’t used to the way I responded, it took a long time to explain British ways of talking and it can be confusing, I would put that episode behind you and take it as a backhanded compliment which I’m sure it was, if he didn’t like it he probably wouldn’t keep pointing it out.
I would say, he is a very lucky fella, it takes a confident lady to sit on someones face and i’m sure he loved it. Has he ever cum over your face? @MrsSmith69
Exactly as @Craig1234 and as @steve19 said… (quotes above) … he should be pleased … when I do similar to Mr W or Pen they are ecstatic as I am when they do similar to me … if I did it to somebody for a second time and they didn’t like it again… I would threaten to get meself somebody like @Craig1234 and/or @steve19 who does appreciate it… xx
Any guy who has the good fortune to have his face up against the most intimate, wonderful part of the woman in his life because she wants to kneel astride him should be thanking his lucky stars. If she orgasmes and he is on the receiving end of it, even better. That is a dream scenario for millions of guys. Embrace it.
You’ve got to tell him how you feel. Let him know you feel very shamed for enjoying yourself and you feel unsure about doing it again or exploring new things.
Maybe he’ll come around and say, “I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to make you feel bad and I really enjoyed it I just wasn’t sure how to respond to how it worked out.” Or he’ll respond poorly and you’ll know something new about how little regard he has for your feelings. Either way, you’ve learned someone new and can move forward appropriately.
For my part, one of my very favorite things is to go down on my wife early in the day and then proceed to taste and smell her for the rest of the day
That’s nothing to be ashamed of at all, I would have loved that to have happened and have savoured the taste all day, at least it shows your enjoyment
Yes I have been made to feel awkward after a good squirting orgasm session too…
I was made to feel bad after squirting in someone’s face and eye after a good oral session…he was coughing and spluttering…
Another one made me feel awkward after a massive squirting & soaking his bed…he bought a new mattress…
Then another person got billed for the wet mattress after a three way foreplay session in the same bed…I was like a hosepipe…couldn’t switch off…didn’t find out until months later.
While I’m lucky in that a guy has never made me feel ashamed about cumming so heavily, I do on occasions still feel a tad embarrassed.
H loves it when I cum on his cock, thighs, in his mouth, wherever, but it doesn’t stop me worrying about drowning the poor guy. Not to mention the need for multiple mattress protectors and changing the sheets afterwards…but sex is hot, messy and most importantly fun. If anyone makes you feel bad for that you definitely need to talk that out.
I was only looking for something to compare it to @MrsSmith69 Personally I would not like to cum over my wife’s face as I would find it degrading for her but I know of some that love it.
About nothing hotter than the after taste of an awesome session to remember. I’ll quit often lick my lips and fingers to re taste my wife’s juice and masturbate
We use kylie sheets and put them on top of the bed. We usually have sex on top as its too hot under the duvet. All you have to do when you are finished is just put them in your washing machine afterwards and your bedding/bed remains clean. We take some with us when we go away on our long weekend breaks in hotels so there are no embarrassing marks left on the bed.