seems this is standard practice for any couples love making these days whether in porn (which yes isnt like real life I appreciate) or even just when people talk about their likes/dislikes. I cant understand the appeal of it, it cant be comfortable for the woman or in the least bit enjoyable, surely?
I dunno, its something about submitting to their power? Or perhaps you just want to take the entire length of it, sort of the same of wanting to take it deep elsewhere?
Deepthroating can be uncomfortable, especially where I've had a tonsillectomy in the last few months so my throat is quite tight with scar tissue. I do gag sometimes as well, but despite all of that I love doing it because I like the challenge of taking the whole of my partner's penis in my mouth, and seeing his eyes light up when I do! I don't think it feels as good to him as a 'regular' blow job does, but he likes the visual aspect of watching me do it. :)
I have alot of trouble with deep throat my gag reflex is terrible and i would be sick haha. i dont like watching it either. It looks like the giver is uncomfortable
I don't see the appeal of it at all there's no way it could be comfortable, i don't have a great gag reflex if i did it's something i can't physically manage anyway can't get more than the head in my mouth
pleased to hear its not only me who doesnt expect this
some people don't have a strong gag reflex at all, my friend (straight guy) can put an entire bannana including skin in his mouth withought much discomfort other than a bit of blood on the end of the bannana.
My OH loves taking me as deep as she can. It feels fantastic to me, just as good as a "regular" blowjob. It depends what I'm in the mood for. If we're have a slow, sensual, sexy session then normal and slow is great. If we're getting kinky and rougher, deep and fast is awesome.
My OH doesn't think it's uncomfortable. She gags sometimes, but just stops when this happens and catches her breath. She says she just loves the feeling of having me as far as she can go and knows that I like it so gets off on it too.
I think, for her, she is proud that she can take that much in her mouth. For me, I wouldn't say it's about power, it just feels really good (and looks really good as I watch her do it).
I guess it depends on the woman really.
+ 1 Secretty :)
If I do gag it doesn't mean I don't like it or I'm having a bad time, I just slow down, catch my breath, then carry on. I still love the feeling of doing it, and I am proud that I can take all of him like you said!
This!Secretty wrote:
My OH loves taking me as deep as she can. It feels fantastic to me, just as good as a "regular" blowjob. It depends what I'm in the mood for. If we're have a slow, sensual, sexy session then normal and slow is great. If we're getting kinky and rougher, deep and fast is awesome.
My OH doesn't think it's uncomfortable. She gags sometimes, but just stops when this happens and catches her breath. She says she just loves the feeling of having me as far as she can go and knows that I like it so gets off on it too.
I think, for her, she is proud that she can take that much in her mouth. For me, I wouldn't say it's about power, it just feels really good (and looks really good as I watch her do it).
I guess it depends on the woman really.
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withought much discomfort other than a bit of blood on the end of the bannana.
I love giving my OH blow jobs I find it a real turn on (the power is al mine), but there is no way I can take all his length. He is a wide boy but also gifted with length as well (I am a lucky girl). Also my gagreflex is pretty strong, but he does enjoy a good blow job.
Not so long ago I purchased a ball stretcher for him and he loves wearing this especially when I'm giving him a blow job.
Well done to all the deep throat queens out there, I just can't manage it.
Well done to deep throater as i cant. I dont like feel and gag alot!
Sometimes I can do it. But the majority of the time I can only get like 5 inches in ny mouth. I do gag a lot. I'd love to be able to get more in but I just can't :/
I love giving oral it teally gets me off but deep throat is only something I can do when very relaxed or alcohol is taking its toll lol xx sometimes the gag relex kicks in and I just continue normal oral.. Other times when levels are running high.. I prefer normal oral but love to see his face on those dt occassions... men are so visual compared to us woman who are more into mind sex xx
My oh is long rather than enormously thick and I dont have a problem deep throating him at all.
For me I love the feeling of him sliding down my throat and for him I think yes, it's more the visual aspect but he really gets off on it too and that in turn makes me feel good.
I am lucky in that due to a small throat op when I was 10 I dont have a gag reflex at all so as long as I remember to breathe through my nose it works great !
For me is the pleasure I get from submitting to someone (also I love giving oral sex) while for my OH is the opposite, plus the visual pleasure, though it usually doesn't last long, cause the OH isn't exactly average in girth and I get sore in no time, to the point I can't keep my mouth open. I'd love to last longer, but really, my jaw aches like hell afterwards.
I'm not saying that we deep throat in the porn sense of literally f******g my wife's mouth whilst receiving OR but there are times when I do go that much deeper causing something of a gagging reflex and it is noticeable that my wife does react in a positive sexual way to this and is turned on by it. Needless to say I enjoy it.
Think its unfortunate so many women seem to feel the need to do this type of stuff when it makes them uncomfortable,just to keep a man happy
Why is it unfortunate if we enjoy it?
If it made me that uncomfortable then I wouldn't do it, but I actually enjoy it so I don't think it's unfortunate at all and nobody forces me in to it.