Discovering Sons Secret Lingerie Fetish

So I made an awkward discovery.
Our utility / laundry room has a small skylight window on the roof through which you can partially see from upstairs and I saw something I shouldn’t have seen.
I discovered my sons fetish for my lingerie while he was supposed to be helping me with the laundry.
Well he did help with the laundry to be fair, but he also got “distracted” lets say, (to put it mildly) by my intimate things.
I have bought some sexy new things lately to spice things up with my partner - or at least try! I was surprised when it seems to have had more effect on the other man of the house.
I guess some guys are more into it than others.
I didn’t know he had a particular thing for lingerie or that my things could trigger him like this.
I’ve said nothing about it.
Is it common to be easily triggered like this? If left alone with a womans lingerie?
Was I right to ignore it? Not sure what else to do / say?

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This is fantastic reading. What did you see? Was he wearing them? Smelling them? Masturbating to them somehow?

I can’t say I ever tried on my mom’s underwear. I also had 2 sisters and the thoughts of trying on their gear was no fantasy of mine that’s for sure.

I guess it depended what he was up to. Every boy has likely seen some porn and likely got excited about what he was touching and seeing. I think this is pretty normal depending on his age. I would be honored if I were you but that is likely not the case. I’d keep it quiet for now and have a general discussion about it when you and him are both ready. Might be moms secret but it may be an indication of behaviour that may not be welcome in any other type of scenario.

I am wondering what you saw though…I would have gotten my ass beaten if I ever got caught doing that 30 years ago…lol

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As long as he’s not getting off on them being yours particularly, then I’d say leave him to it :+1: unless it makes you feel uncomfortable? Then let him explore himself and find out who he wants to be, it might’ve just been a one off thing :man_shrugging: :thinking:

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Hello :wave:
Yes defo ignore it, if you say anything to him he will be mortified.
A lot of men do get turned on by looking at lingerie it’s nothing new. I prefer to see them on a partner, never really been excited by just looking at them.

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Well I didn’t want to be too crude or graphic but I saw more than I should see.
When I say he got distracted I mean I saw him handlng them, inspecting them at first.
He had the machine half loaded but was standing stil holding my new bra and just staring at it.

I thought it was kind of amusing at first, but seemed nothing more than curiosity or admiration of a nice bra, innocent enough.
I was busy and not wanting to stare so I just carried on but 5 minutes later I was coming back downstairs and noticed he hadn’t made much progress, still in the same spot and still the machine door still open.

What the hell is he doing? I wondered, pausing again to check on him. He had moved on from bras and seemed reluctant to let go of my thong.
It didn’t register with me at first when it looked like he was unbuttoning his jeans I thought he must want to to put them in the machine but that wasn’t the reason.

I knew I shouldn’t be looking anymore and panicked at the thought of being seen so I moved along in a dazed fluster wondering what the hell I just saw!

I couldn’t help but wonder about that part, the separation of the lingerie from me as the owner.
It could be just the lingerie but then again he didn’t seem to be put off by them belonging to me but who knows without asking him.
I thought the same but it’s more than a one off thing

I would definitely ignore it. Not sure how old he is but he probably hasnt seen lingerie up close before to really inspect it? Seeing and feeling it has probably just turned him on a wee bit, not because it is yours, but because its sexy underwear. Some boys/men get extremely turned on with lingerie. And im guessing hes probably quite young. I wouldnt worry about it.

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As a man who has worn lingerie for most of my life, I would suggest sitting him down for a very low key chat. I got caught wearing knickers at a young age and thinking back, I wish I’d had “the talk “ and would have been happy to have knickers bought for me instead of male underwear.

I got caught because I was wearing the knickers for the first time, and Mum asked me to open the bathroom door as she wanted to wash her hands. I didn’t want to take them off and kept wearing them as long as I could even at the expense of getting caught.

I’ve hidden my preference for decades and could have been far happier if it had been in the open. I am fully straight but just love lingerie. I now wear full time and wish I’d never had to hide it. The best time of my life was when my ex asked me to wear her knickers.

I’m happy to answer any questions you may have from my own personal perspective.

:bum3: + :stockings: = :grin:

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I would forget about it, he was probably intriged by the lingerie rather than it being yours. Not sure of his age but if teenager he is discovering things.

Can’t say I was every distracted by my mum’s underwear. Sounds like he was just intrigued, probably imagining the hot girl at school in them. My advice, leave well alone, discussing it will humiliate him, and humilation might well cement any fetish he does have!

From a son point of view I’d say yes please don’t say a word as it’ll be sooo awkwardly embarrassing :flushed:

How old is he and in what context did you see him enjoying your lingerie?

Could this just be a moment that most boys have had when they’ve tried something of their mums on and funnily danced about the house

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Sorry I should have mentioned he is 21, not a teenager. It might have found it easier to talk about it if he was a young teen rather than a young man.
I don’t want to embarrass him so I’ve been avoiding the subject and trying to put it out of my mind and pretend not to know.
The first time I didn’t see much and it was alot to process at the time. More recently I have confirmed he’s still doing it and I’ve seen him play with everything and anything from bras to tights / stockings draped over like a sort of nylon condom while he relieved himself and of course panties. Even enthusiastically sniffing dirty panties which probably shocked me the most the first time I saw him do that. He sampled multiple pairs and had his way with some before tossing them in the machine

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I don’t think it will be anything to do with it specifically being your lingerie, quite normal I think to be intrigued and turned on by lingerie, tights stockings in general I think.

However It’s perhaps a bit too much to be “having his way” with your stuff though. Based on this and the fact it’s continuing. Its now maybe is the time to talk with him.

Talking about it with him will be mortifying for him, and yourself I imagine. However as @Jade48 has said it may end up being beneficial in the long run.

Perhaps an olive branch may be openly accepting his intrigue and either suggesting or gifting some items tights, panties ect which are his to explore as he pleases.

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Yes I guess it’s normal to be turned on by such things as you say and I realize those undies were made to excite (even if he was not the intended target)
It probably came as a surprise to him to find such things, I mean ten years ago he would not have found a lacey red thong just boring cotton panties.
I wore nice things when I was younger but there was a long in between period of boring mum undies until recently.
Well his b’day is coming up but I wonder how he would feel getting that kind of present from me featuring a silky lacey surprise lol

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If he is using your things to pleasure himself, and sniffing your dirty underwear maybe it is time to have a chat. Something along the lines of, it’s completely normal, but these are my underwear and I’d prefer if you didn’t use mine.

Maybe offer to buy him some he could have as his own? Like you say, he’s 21, not a horny teen, so should be aware of consent and if you aren’t comfortable that it should stop without it needing a big discussion!

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It crossed my mind while shopping recently but it was a funny dynamic browsing thongs and stockings wondering which ones would do it for him!
I was originally shopping to surprise my partner who had issues in the bedroom dept lets say so I thought the lingerie might help but it didn’t.
I’ve since finished with him but still it wasn’t a waste as it feels good to wear and get in touch with my feminine side again. I feel like a new woman. And I like it. It’s just confusing that my son likes it too!

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Ok. So sniffing your mums used knickers is a little out there. Are you aware if he has had sexual partners or if he’s still a virgin? Could be the bringing back memories of past girlfriends, smell is a very powerful thing. So not thinking about you in anyway. Or if not been with anyone before maybe curiosity got the better of him. What does pussy smell like what does it taste like all thing we men wonder before finally getting to find out. So he could also be compartmentalizing, it’s just some sexy looking, sexy smelling pants and that would get most guys excited.

Full disclosure I sniff my wife’s dirty underwear now and then and have got off to them on occasion.

Probably start by trying to remove or limit the opportunity he has to indulge himself. Putting the particular items aside and putting them through the wash when he’s not about. He’ll probably take the hint. But obviously if he’s the going out of his way to do it, it’s going to have to be awkward conversation to put a stop to it.

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He has had partners and is a very normal well adjusted young man with a normal social life. He has his fathers good looks so no problems with girls! Although I think lockdown put a dampner on that for a while so boredom and sexual frustration could be at play. I guess he has no current outlet for his needs and suddenly I’m filling the place with lacey knickers and it seems to have triggered something.
It’s the sniffing I’m most surprised and curious about. I mean you should see his reaction when he sniffs them it’s quite something

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Yeah ok, my guess he caught a wiff and it’s brought back memories of some fun times he’s had and sexual frustration has got the better of him. Unlikely it’s about to you. I reckon removing the temptation as much as possible will be enough.

The smell of a woman is a powerful aphrodisiac that’s all I going to say!

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Maybe just buy a small selection of knickers, possibly a bra, then see which ones end up in the wash. I personally always liked the very feminine lacy styles, and now I buy mostly from a very famous lingerie company.

I always targeted clean knickers from the hot water cupboard or drawers, I never went for dirty stuff. In the end, I managed to have a little stash, which I would add to the washing pile once in a while.

I would have been tickled pink to receive a little lingerie bundle of my own, if not a little embarrassed at first, but then, I’d already been caught wearing them by then.

Check out “Katie and Laura’s, men in panties”. Very informative.