Hey to me seems like a young lad getting turned on by the loo of some underwear. I’m sure you would find a lot of your guys being faced with that situation would get turned on by the feeling. Maybe he was imagining a girl in them. Maybe not the best place to have done it mind. But then maybe the thought of being caught drove him on.
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I thought he was getting harder to shop for as he got older but maybe not lol
All that money spent on xbox games when I could have simply bought suspender stockings and a lacey thong! Haha
A lingerie gift is an interesting way to break the ice / show support but as @NaughtyB85 mentioned the scent could be an aphrodesiac too so I wonder if a clean new pair would stoke the same excitement after seeing him first hand sniffing mine after I’ve worn them.
@Crake85 maybe the danger /risk factor adds to his fantasy in some way.
Whoever/whatever he’s fantasizing about
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Make sure you buy him a set that you like as well, you can then borrow them if you need to!!!
May be buy him the advent calender for Christmas
@mumstheword
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Lol very funny @steve19 I’ll keep the advent calendar in mind.
Well you have to see the funny side of these things too.
Still not sure how he’d feel receiving lingerie from me or how I’d feel picking it out for him.
Gifting lingerie would usually be interpreted as flirty afterall so I don’t want to freak him out or embarrass him more
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I think its just a boy’s thing and we will blame it on lock down. Its just unfortunately you happened to see him. AS you say, you have to laugh at these things. @mumstheword
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Honestly, I would leave him to it. It really isn’t an uncommon thing trust me. Boys and girls do really have a thing for underwear I assure you - me included!
As I mentioned here, loads of people have a thing for underwear and it’s completely natural and fine 
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Oh wow! Hmm for some weird reason my gut is now telling me you should maybe try find a way to talk to him about it or at least get a conversation open on it as it’s one kinky funny thing to experiment trying on your mums lingerie for fun but to masturbate on it might need some parenting talks.
Maybe as an idea you could buy him some lingerie and just discreetly leave it on his bed for him. Of course it’s gonna be embarrassing no matter what way you tackle it but you’ll probably feel better for doing it afterwards on both parts 
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Thanks @Blonde_Bunny well it’s certainly the easier option so that’s how I’ve been playing it for now.
I don’t want to embarrass him for having a lingerie fetish which is common as you say.
I can try to continue ignoring it but I will be passing that window alot while he’s doing laundry (due to the gym & sports I can’t keep up with his big loads) so won’t be easy to forget.
Plus I can’t unsee the things I saw and it does stick in your mind to see something like that!
It keeps replaying in my head and I’m still processing it I guess
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He is 21 though… I was married at that age. He does need to realize that it can be awkward for a mom.
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The pheromones that come from a worn pair of pants are THE most incredible scent and should not be underestimated. It could just be that he is craving rather than the pants themselves. That said I have more “woman’s” underwear than mens in my draw and it is rare that I will wear things that re designed for men as I find them uncomfortable. It may be that he is coming aware of the difference and wants/needs to see the much more varied styles that are available to women compared to men.
None of us can gage his reaction to you speaking to him about this, though I wish it where more out in the open as it appears to be very common.
Good luck with this, I hope you and your son find a way forward.
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At 21 he should know what is and isn’t acceptable. Having a lingerie/tights fetish, totally fine. Masturbating into other peoples underwear, not okay. You have every right to speak to him and ask him to stop if it makes you feel uncomfortable
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He’s definitely old enough to buy his own, is he working at the moment?
If you make a big deal out of it he could end up hiding it and secrets are rubbish.
I’d try and bring it up with him, maybe just act cool really, just say something like, I was upstairs earlier when you were doing the laundry, did you know you can see throught the skylight from there?.. Thanks for helping out… I’d really prefer it if you could get some new underwear for yourself, I’m going shopping this weekend… Do you want to come with me?..
Then if it carries on , I don’t know!! Be firm.
I’m trying to think if it was my son, I’d be a bit weirded out but would try and switch off the emotional side of the brain, act like it was a friend I was talking to, not a child.
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I confess to exploring my mums secret drawer or lacey, frilly, silky, sheer things when I was young curious and horny.
I knew it was wrong but hormones and fetishes make you do crazy things.
Is it just sniffing or does he cum into your dirty panties?
Did you see?
Did you wear them since?
It sounds like your son’s turned on by the scent and thought of women rather than wanting to wear the underwear himself. Having girlfriends suggests he’s not fixated on you personally. I’d perhaps just keep quiet and let him enjoy himself / relieve his frustration, like you might if you came across a porn stash or sex toys. They’re at least going in the washing machine afterwards.
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@KinkyGuy21 I didn’t stick around long enough to find out the first time but was more mentally prepared the second and subsequent times.
Yes he wraps them around and cums into them sometimes while sniffing another pair.
Wore them numerous times before I realized but as @Serpentwand said they go straight in the wash. Only damage was a hole in my tights (but not even sure if it was him so said nothing)
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If giving him some fun and sounds like you not so repulsed after first time is anyone getting hurt or am i just being wrong ?
Love wife in sexy underwear and find hot to try occasionally.
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It ultimately depends how you feel about it.
If you don’t mind him using your lingerie then he isn’t hurting anyone and let it be.
But if it makes you feel uncomfortable then you need to address it (kindly to start with)
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It’s normal to be extra horny after the gym so that might be part of it too.
All those heightened hormones with fancy bras stockings and lace in his face probably drives him crazy.
Especially if he gets a whiff of pussy and pheromones from them.
Has he seen you in lingerie?
You saw him cum into your panties and stockings, anything else?
Sorry but I can’t help feeling people wouldn’t be making the same allowances if it was a grown up female child masturbating with their parents possessions, yes he might be horny but he’s in his twenties and old enough to know what’s appropriate and exercise some self control. I honestly don’t mean anything against your son, I’m just a bit surprised that no-one thinks this needs to be addressed in any way, especially as it’s not just been a one time thing.
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Hi @AmyA well I don’t think gender is a factor but I get your concerns. To be fair numerous members have commented that an intervention and discrete chat might be in order and I’m weighing that advice. It’s just not an easy subject to approach I guess.
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