If my partner “helps” by thrusting deeply… pulling my hair and talking dirty too…really tips me over the edge…
Oh yeah and the squelchy saliva noises added with eye contact too…
Just awesome.
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Yeah @CurvyJilly, one of my OH favourite ways of giving me a BJ recently if for me to hold her head and basically fuck her mouth really hard and deep as I can!! She really loves it!
Another thing she does well is to hold me full deep throat and then pull on my balls as hard as she can, the combination of that makes me cum intensely, and because she’s got me full deep throat when I cum she swallows straight down her throat. It’s amazing!!
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Sorry @valbowski77 it wasn’t directed at you’re comment at all, yes you’re right people have the choice to do what they want and not be pressurised in to do something they don’t want.
I was more getting at my FBF was so animated about why giving BJ’s was so disgusting but then admitted that having a man go down on her was OK and she enjoyed nothing more, just came over as very hypocritical in the moment of the conversation which she obviously realised when she basically said she was selfish when it came to sex which was also came over a bit well er selfish.
For me personally I wouldnt expected someone to do something to me that I wouldn’t want to repay in the same way which is where I think the confusion lies with your post. Just my personal choice and could have worded it better.
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Personally I like giving them, probably more than hubby likes receiving!
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I’ve always loved giving bj. It turns me on as much (or more) as getting oral. I feel like I’m in control and just watching his face is such a turn on!
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Glad that I am a million miles away from your friends 
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I would pick up on that now as I was able to when I was younger. It has just always been apparent to me what an engagement/relationship was always about. If she never liked it, it did not happen. Sound like an expert now, nope, I just was able to read what was happening.
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I really enjoy giving my husband blow jobs 
It’s a big big turn on for me, and I’m usually trying to take care of myself simultaneously 
In case anyone missed this thread, there are some awesome tips here 
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I love to give hubby a blow job usually every time we have sex gets him rock hard for piv. Not so keen on cum in mouth but love a facial if its the time of the month and creampie is off the menu.
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Ive always enjoyed giving bjs. Not a fan of gagging though, so will deep throat at my pace.
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As a male, I do enjoy a blowjob but can honestly say I’ve never cum from one. OH is not a massive fan as she has a very poor gag reflex, she still does then occasionally but I sometimes feel she doesn’t really enjoy it - I’ve never pressured her to do it! She’s happy for me to finish myself off into her mouth but no one has ever got me there from a bj alone! On the other hand I love going down on her and would never assume she should return the favour. She loves me going down on her but I wouldn’t necessarily call it selfish that she’s not a fan of sucking me off!! As long as she’s happy I’m happy 
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I don’t mind giving head. I expect is as part of foreplay (which could be before a dinner-date, rather than immediately before penetration) but I wouldn’t just do it out of boredom while watching TV.
What I personally find annoying, as demonstrated perfectly by my ex, is a partner who purposely stops and starts and tries to postpone things as long as possible. Dude, you might be really enjoying it but it’s been 20 minutes and my jaw aches! At this point I’d divert my attention elsewhere, pulling his hand from my hair while he tried to hold me down there. This inevitably lead to his complaining about me not liking to give BJs and not doing it long enough to feel satisfied. Completely untrue, but it’s all about context and the mutual enjoyment of both parties rather than one being a selfish, over-indulgent plank.
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I enjoy it. Love the control, part of the intimacy and can go from sensual to slutty quite quickly 
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Depends on the cock and their hygiene for me, if I feel really attracted to the look of the others penis then I’d happily suck it whenever but I’ve only ever came across one that’s really looked appealing to me which I know probably makes me sound very picky lol 
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My wife doesn’t do it. Says she doesn’t like the taste, and it hurts her jaw. I wish she could enjoy it as she was very good at it!
Yeah @AJSTAR is a tough one, you want find one with width and a bit of extra length for penetration but then that makes it all the more difficult to suck, fortunately for my OH when giving me a BJ my cock has neither
Although I have been told I have rather large glans!! 
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Ooo large glans, could this be a good thing to have to suck on maybe? 
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@AJSTAR Have been told there’s no way your hand can slip of it! So yes must be a good thing to suck on as my OH does get a good mouth full!!
My partner off 9 years loves giving me blowjob , and she is expert at it I’ve had many suck it , but not
as good as her, every time she does it , she does it a different way bloody amazing also loves to swallow my come every time , which she loves also says I’m the only man who’s come she has swallowed lol personally I couldn’t be with anyone that didn’t enjoy giving blowjobs 
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Love giving. Hate receiving.
If someone doesn’t want to do something they shouldn’t and their partner has to be ok with that. I would hate my partner to feel like they were “returning the favour”.
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