Are male strippers taken as seriously as their female counterparts or are they more about cringy fun and embarrassment???
Well I wouldn't go to see one, I prefer fantasies of my crushes taking clothes off.
In my experience its more of a laugh x
I'm sure some women do take it seriously . I've never actually seen a male stripper in real life but I reckon I'd find it a bit of a turn on especially if he was stripping off a uniform of some description ;)
Having said that I do know of a couple of blokes who found the whole female stripper thing totally embarrassing and felt really uncomfortable about it so it clearly all depends on the person .
More of an entertainment thing in my opinion :)
I think it would be more of a laugh :)
I took Mike XXL VERY seriously.
My oh is going on a hen night at the weekend and they have booked a stripper for the hen I'm not insecure about it hope she has a fab time but was just wondering you see stripperflapping their do dah around and I'm sure the girls love a little feel !!
do women prefer the bodybuilder type or more normal average build guys??
Personally I prefer normal build over bodybuilder anyday :)
I prefer something in between if being picky :)
Normal build for me :)
Usual disclaimer - all women are different!
I've only ever experienced a male stripper in a large group of people. He had a nice-ish body, but I didn't feel turned on at all. It was not a sexy atmosphere. Often it is done to embarrass a "hen" or "birthday girl" and not really intended to be sexually arousing. I've only seen female strippers/lapdancers in much more private/subdued settings and I've found it extremely erotic. It's only a guess , because I don't think those kind of clubs exist, but I think I would equally enjoy a male lapdance in a quiet setting without loads of people watching.
Choconala wrote:
Normal build for me :)
Me too.....xx
Caliente id love to give yo a private lapdance think you woulld enjoy the reveal at the end!!
Personally, I find it cringy and funny rather than sexy. I fully appreciate the work that has gone into their bodies -training and eating wise but a man grinding and swinging his cock in my face just doesnt do it for me. Like Caliente said though, its probably the setting a lot of the time, screaming drunk women, cheesy music, even cheesier stage names and a lepoard print thong are pretty much sure fire turn off's for me lol  I'm not sure I would enjoy a sensual private one either but probably a lot more than a strip club tyoe senario. As for bodies, I like 'em big! My husband is a strongman and he's massive!  Muscular and strong but not body-builder defined. I would chose normal build over body-builder though, I love me a bit of chub.
for me male strippers are like a sex toy party, an excuse to let your hair down with your girlies get really drunk and have a laugh
Mr&MrsA75 wrote:
Personally, I find it cringy and funny rather than sexy. I fully appreciate the work that has gone into their bodies -training and eating wise but a man grinding and swinging his cock in my face just doesnt do it for me.
+1!
In my (limited) experience with male strippers, personally I have found it really cringy. There was one instance at a birthday party where part of the routine was to spray whipped cream on his willy and swing it around like a helicopter. It was a good laugh but definitely not sexy.
Yes, one I went to did the same with baby lotion! Just slinging it about everywhere! I had paid a lot for my outfit and I wasn't impressed with the thought of it getting covered in Tesco value baby lotion lol Most of the time when you go to strip club they have a drag act on as well though and that saves the day for me! Hilarious 
HunkyHoward38 wrote:
Caliente id love to give yo a private lapdance think you woulld enjoy the reveal at the end!!
I'm really not that keen on seeing that sort of thing unless I'm in a relationship with someone!
Personally I'm not sure I agree with the premise that men enjoy strippers. Don't get me wrong, I think the female body is just the most beautiful thing and really enjoy seeing my wife in any state of undress but watching a stripper appeals not at all - like going to watch someone pull the dust-sheet slowly off a Ferrari that isn't yours and you won't be getting to drive.
What is the point?