Hi, I have never fisted my partner and she has never asked me to. I’ve just thought if it was worth giving it a go? We both might like it. She has had two kids with natural birth. Don’t know if this makes a difference. I have quite small hands and she can take quite big dildos with no problem. As long as we use lots of lube. I just wondered if this is part of some couples sex life or just a porn thing? Any advice would be welcome.
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What does she think about it?
That would have to be the 1st step.
We tried it after baby #2 but couldnt quite get over the thumb hump.
She’s shrunk a little since.
Would regularly have my 4 fingers + hand in with the thumb remaining outside. Good fun.
Doesn’t seem to fit anymore, or she gets impatient and wants my penis in her as soon as the 3rd finger is inserted these days.
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Wouldnt be for me husband can only get two fingers in me. I have not had children so very tight down there.
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Maybe ask your partner first what she thinks? She may have not suggested it for a reason. A large dildo feels quite different from a hand.
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Just two words, patience and copious amounts of lube
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I’m going to outdo @BrokenEye here and go with just one word: YES!!
I absolutely adore vaginal stretching/fisting, it feels so intimate and the sensations incredible. Just as others have said, use lots of lube, wash your hands, keep your nails trim or wear gloves, and go slow. Have fun 
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She doesn’t suggest anything for sex. It’s all up to me. I’ll have to ask her to see what she says. She might want to, she might not.
Thanks for your reply, great advice. Glad you enjoy it so much. 
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This is my personal opinion and being male I cannot confirm if ladies like it. I would say most ladies don’t like it, its a little degrading and I don’t know any lady that prefers to be big/loose in the vagina region. I could be totally wrong though.
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I do agree with you. I only have had a hand inside me once and that was a woman doctor. Not a pleasant experience. I would rather be a small private chapel that a ruddy great drafty cathedral myself. 
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As a man I think fisting is the most un sexy, unattractive sexual act ever.. A pussy is ment for a dick FFS not for a whole hand/fist… Guys find this attractive because they like seeing how much a woman can take, but also some women like this as it feels good being stretched…
But for me its a HUGE turn off and if a woman ask me to do it to them, I would yes as it must give them pleasure, but it WOULDN’T do anything for me in the slightest.
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There is a bizarre fetish for women who enjoy the sensation of child birth and they go about trying to recreate it through inserting large toys and fisting
Bizarre indeed cant imagine many women would want to recreate the feeling, last i heard childbirth is painful.
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We occasionally do it and I do enjoy it. For me it a combination of feeling full and rubbing up against the g-spot.
But, you absolutely have to have a chat about it.
If she is agreeable to trying it then I suggest she ensure she is very turned on, use lots of lube, take your time; it may not be achievable the first time. For me clit stimulation at the same time makes it easier and very enjoyable.
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Yeah there’s some who can get high on it and the surge of hormones can give them multiple orgasms during birthing
Bet that could be embarrassing when in hospital. Wonder if it hinders the speed of the birth if the vagina is contracting with an orgasm how would the baby be pushed out? Sure someone on the forum would say if they know.
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Actually it’s not unknown for some women to experience orgasm during the birth as the baby presses down on the g-spot.
I doubt anyone else in the delivery room would know though unless the woman announced it!
I suppose the woman would be making so much noise anyway it would not be noticed.
I’ve seen lots of fisting porn and was literally just looking at a post on Fetlife where a woman’s getting fisted by another woman as she gives head to a guy but never dreamed about it with the wife
I’ve had no more than 3 fingers in her
@AJSTAR I would of thought child birth would be to painful to even think about orgasms?
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