This thread! I dont know whether to laugh or cry! Baggy vaginas and ‘normal sex’ is boring!
Just picturing people with vaginas walking around everywhere like John Wayne, or me going flying from a gust of wind because I wore a dress with no knickers. Wonder if that’s how Mary Poppins got around
Could I get to Oz?
I’ve tried fisting. Didn’t enjoy it, his hands were huge, it was painful because I was no longer aroused. Even lube didn’t help.
I suppose the wind just gets up that giant cathedral hole that’s left post fisting and takes you wherever it blows.
Considering the climate change issues we’re facing, one could say more research should be done into fisting. It perhaps could be the greenest of transport methods for the receiver.
If only some ladies, having tried it, could have taken part in this thread, we could then have taken note of their comments and then known for sure if it comes back to size or remains a cathedral sized hole waiting for a gust of wind.
Forgot about the cathedrals and small churches. I’ll change my username to Basilica of the National Shrine of Our Lady of Aparecida because of its large interior and myself an ex swinger. I’d swallow the Liverpool cathedral no problem if I walked by it!
Right, I’m going to step in here. The vagina is made of muscle tissue, and like many muscles, it can stretch and contract. When you put something girthy inside, it stretches to make space. But afterward, those muscles contract back.
It can feel easier after a few times because the muscles are more relaxed, your body is more used to the sensation and you’re probably less tense overall.
Feeling anxious or uncertain about penetration can prevent the muscles from relaxing, which may make it feel “tighter”, but that’s not about tightness or looseness, it’s just your body not being ready, which can cause pain.
Like how stretching or working out gets easier the more you do it, your muscles adapt.
Also, the whole idea of a “loose” vagina is a harmful myth. It’s often used to shame women or imply something’s wrong with their bodies, when in reality, vaginas are designed to stretch and bounce back. Talking about “tightness” or “looseness” like it’s a measure of someone’s worth isn’t accurate, or helpful.
It’s a muscle, you train the muscle over time, you learn to relax the muscle. Also just a thought for you. If by your logic the vagina gets looser with fisting if a woman has had a baby why would they not take advantage of being a little looser and experience vaginal fisting which I can only imagine feels incredible ? If I think about it for a minute when a woman gives birth the cervix dilates but the muscle of the vagina will do what they are designed to do which is stretch, I think this would cause more “looseness” than vaginal fisting as fisting can be gradual and you can train the muscles to relax and stretch over time. (You can’t practice child birth and prepare for that but some woman do say that the second one is easier is this because your muscles have experienced it before so you are more prepared for it ? any vagina owners want to step in and correct me as that logic makes sense to me.
I hesitate to get involved here, but what if we consider the anus? A muscle also. Also a location people fist. Does routine fisting make the person (male or female) looser over time? Or is it training to be able to relax more and accept large penetrative objects?
As a person who does not do any anal giving or receiving on a routine basis I’ve wondered if the anus becomes loose over time from the use of larger objects.
Would talking about the anus with respect to looseness be another way to consider the effects of fisting on the vagina? I understand they are not the same, but are they similar enough for this discussion?
No, the anus does not get looser with use. Obviously, if someone was constantly using large toys for hours and hours at a time, they could do damage. But fisting is not going to cause that.
I’m not sure how this furthers the conversation at all? They are two very different body parts.
Are you even slightly aware of how you’re coming across in this thread?
I think you should read back everyone’s posts. Try to understand why your contributions are so offensive to many women, and the insight they are trying to share with you.
Why is a gay man’s ass relevant a lot of straight men enjoy anal play. My wife fists and pegs me regularly and I’m still tight. Would struggle to get a finger inside me if I’m not relaxed enough or anticipating anal
At this point you have to just be a troll. And let’s be honest what does it really matter to you if a woman’s vagina is looser than your liking because she likes to be fisted ? Ever think maybe the person she is with enjoys fisting them so they are both happy ? This forum is for lots of different people and believe it or not a lot of people in here will enjoy things that you don’t the fact it doesn’t float your boat is irrelevant as your not the only person on this forum. Stop being so small minded.