I am really kinky. Love doing different things and experimenting. I tend to try a lot during solo play and try and adapt that with the wife
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I would once say no ā¦ but these days Iād say IM
FILTHY ! Lol
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Definitely 
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In my mind, yes Iām kinky. My imagination runs away with me and conjures up all sorts of kinky scenarios, some of which are solo which allows me to act them out.
Sadly my partner is not as broad minded so I never get to try out many of the exciting and kinky things that I imagine us doing together.
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Iām in the same boat. Iām quit kinky but unfortunately my partnerās quit vanilla and unadventurous. Vanilla is my favourite ice-cream but long for tutti-fruity in the bedroom.
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I was very vanilla in the bedroom department when we first got together, but now wow!!, Heās given me the confidence to try new things, and Iām glad he has. Weāve gone very kinky and BDSM. Iām always thinking up new things to try, different roleplay scenarios, he just calls me his dirty wife 
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I know she likes to read some pretty kinky stuff occasionally, maybe when sheās enjoying a bit of solo play but itās very rarely shared although she will sometimes surprise me with a good dress up session or, pre-lockdown, wear a remote control knicker vibe when weāre out and slide the controller across the table during a meal but thatās as ākinkyā as it gets.
I too long for something a lot more adventurous!
Kinky? Not really. Sexual? Yes definitely.
I donāt really discuss my sex life at all with friends, however they would almost definitely describe me as a sexual person.
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@Joe_90 - the obvious question: have you ever sat her down and really opened up to her about your desires? Or if you find that prospect a bit daunting, would you consider writing her a letter in which you describe the things youād like to explore?
Great advice thanks but yes, Iāve tried both those suggestions but itās not āher thingā so not worth pushing it and risk spoiling an otherwise great relationship.
That said, she does have a sizeable selection of toys to choose from and is happy to include them in our time together as well as on her own but I donāt think nowadays that would be regarded as remotely kinky!!!
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Yes definitely 
Iām kinky and soās my wife. 
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Me and OH are both in our 50ās and try more things now than we ever have but I wouldnāt say we were kinky
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More willingly-curious than kinky thenā¦ myself and Sexterminatrix are of a similar mind and are certainly less āvanillaā than we were, but donāt consider ourselves full-on kinky; weāre only here once so why not try a few things? And if youāre not harming yourself or anyone else, whoās to say itās wrong?
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