Just wondering if you guys like to hear your oh talk about there past sexual encounters I used to be so jealous but now I love to hear my oh talk about her past partners
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Yes yes yes 100% the more detail the better 
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No not at all. I know she hasn’t had many partners but it doesn’t do anything for me. And same for me I wouldn’t talk about mine in front of her.
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She has discussed them with me, sometimes I think she is giving me and ego boost, by telling me I doing something better to her than so and so ever could. 
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Only been married 37 years and together 5 years before that. We have never spoke of any previous relationships, boyfriends/girlfriends.
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We did talk about this a few times early in our relationship, 16+ years ago. It hasn’t been talked about since and I’m good with that.
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Unless there’s something viral that I need to know about, I don’t think it’s any of my business. My focus is on our relationship here-and-now, not on her past or who may have been in it. To do less is to do us both a disservice.
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We have spoken a lot (not just because of the blog). I do get turned on by all the details, too. Often, it’ll get me going if I’m not really in the mood.
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Can be a sign of good trust when they feel comfortable enough to open up about their previous partners 
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No. Just no.
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I know about several of my wife’s previous experiences … I don’t care about past boyfriends.
When we first hooked up she wasn’t thinking I’d be long term … and told me some of the racier experiences she’d had, including some that still don’t sit well with me.
Her body count is also something I battle … I’m not about shaming, but it can still be difficult for me.
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I find it a massive turn on tbf I love hearing about the things she got up to
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I definitely have interest in my wife’s past relationships. We were each other’s first. She had other previous boyfriends that she tells me about, but she has never mentioned anything about if she was orally active with them. She wouldn’t have sex with them but we were orally active in the first couple months of dating. I would love to hear if she was orally active before me. I would also tell her mine which is not much! Lol
We have chatted but due to asking about boundaries, or finding out if there is something to try “do you like anal?” Kind of thing to find out how previous partners treated them etc weve all had bad experiences, so need to find out if it was a good experience or not etc.
Everyone has a past, its behind them, we dont go backwards in life, we go forwards, so we dont talk about the past unless there is a reason, and asking about how you used to pump isnt one imo
My hubby loves it, especially when I tell him they were bigger
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Yes its a big turn on
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A bit odd for me as I met my husband through his ex (we were friends) and one of his other ex-girlfriends was a patient at the practice I worked for, so I got to know some things about her even if I didn’t want to. I know some things, but not everything. What I do know however is that mine are the best blowjobs my husband has ever had, the best sex he has ever had, I am the kinkiest he has ever had and I am the best partner he has ever had. I can walk with a proud smile on my face knowing that
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Never really spoken about it but away camping with a few groups of friends (one of which is my OH’s childhood friend - so have known each other since day dot) and she was telling me that in her early 20’s she was well known as being the Blow Job queen of her local area and that so many men went to her for this legendary “service”. Since she told me this been itching for one myself but we haven’t brought the flavoured lube with us.
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Sounds a little cuckold there. If he likes that use a large dildo during foreplay to stretch you.
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My wife and I were best friends at uni before we got together, so we shared a lot more about our sex lives than we would have otherwise e.g. drinking together, playing I Have Never…
By the time we got together, there were no secrets left! Which I suppose is a good thing.
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