Sounds strange but its 50/50 for me. I know a bit as i have a stepson so pretty obvious who she has been with to a point but i dont like thinking about her with his dad. However, she did say something about someone else she dated and im kind of intrigued how far that went.
Im not experienced at all… mid 40s and ive had 2 long term relationships and been with 2 others one night each during my first relationship - im really not proud of cheating it must be said. Ive never asked about my OH experience but I think she has had more than me but not much.
Its a no for me, everyone has a past but I’d rather not know any of it. The thought of my husband with someone else, some other girl bouncing on his cock, even though i know this has obviously happened as he had previous relationships, i like to pretend it didnt.
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Generally not. I don’t think there is anything spicy enough to warrant further investigation with my OH.
We covered this during the early part of our relationship. It has never come up since. We both agreed that the sex life we now share is far better than anything experienced in our past.
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My wife has told me she used to have sex out the back of nightclubs or down side streets with one previous boyfriend when she was a lot younger.
I’m not really into that but knowing she did this and has this naughty side to her turns me on massively.
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Funnily enough I like this too. Something nicely cuck.
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Yes everyone grows and learns from the past …I want to know every thing
We have discussed it over the years, but none of them have been as good as what we have, to be fair I can’t really remember anyone else, we have been together for years though, but together we have experimented more together than we have with others
@steve19 , we are still in our trial period also at 37 years .
We had both been married before , so we both had a few sexual encounters after being divorced . A long time ago when she was active and possibly a bit drunk we would talk about prior escapades . I must say that many times we both got hotter and had wild sex after a few stories . Oddly one of my friends told me about her at a party where he walked into the bathroom and she was getting mounted on the vanity . She never brought that story up , I think because she did not remember it .
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Yes and no.
I’m happy to talk about it if she wants to divulge, but I don’t get off on it. It’s nice to know when we’ve done stuff she’s never done before (that list is pretty short now from what we’ve done…) but there are hot things we’ve both done in our past we can’t repeat with each other, which is a shame.
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No I don’t want to here about who my partner has slept with