I like to give a count down, say from five then if my partner is not ready we cool it down for a bit
@Blonde_Bunny: Orgasm denial rocks
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I have said i was going to cum in the past but it was more as a way of making sure it was ok. Making sure they were satisfied or not rudely surprised lol.
A past partner rarely made any noise aside from some panting.
One day during oral (for her) i had built her up so much and was using all my best techniques listening to her panting and feeling her fingers in my hair. Suddenly she tenses up, her thighs slam shut against the sides of my head and squeeze like a bear trap before she starts shaking almost violently for what felt like 5 minutes.
(I just had to wait and wonder if sometimes i was too good 
)
Most partners since will tell me for various reasons, similar to those mentioned above.
My last long term girlfriend/submissive would tell me she was close because i took great enjoyment out of denying her until i was close myself
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We don’t announce we are cumming as a matter of o
routine, although we do sometimes. I will often do the “Keep doing that” thing though.
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I usually tell my girlfriend I am about to cum. It’s a turn on for both of us as we talk dirty to each other and she tells me I am bad and asks me if I am going to be bad and shoot my spunk everywhere. She loves to watch me cum. Often she will wank me off while we kiss passionately. She will break off when I tell her it’s time so she can watch me ejaculating wildly 
She also tells me, not sure exactly why, she seems to do it unconsciously but sometimes tells me not to stop etc when I’m hitting the sweet spot so practical reasons too
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Depends where I’m going to cum. I don’t usually say anything if I’m going to cum inside her but if it’s oral or anal play then I usually give her some warning!
Most of the time I announce it. It gives her some warning to either prepare or to stop me from cumming if she wants to edge away or if she simply wants more. Usually she has came atleast a couple of times if it’s intercourse or if we are both pleasuring each other so she would usually want to see me explode. But obviously if she’s just pleasuring me then that’s the goal. But the warning can let her decide whether to edge me and torrment the life out me or let me shoot. But to be honest it’s a habitual thing announcing it. I think only time I tend not to is if we are both reaching climax simultaneously, then it’s just a hot passionate moment.
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Just to add my view as a single man, if I was with someone I would definitely say when I’m getting close and when I was about to cum, and id love her to do the same. Maybe this is a silly thing to say but I just think there’s a bond when you say it and look into their eyes. I sometimes watch porn where the women announces their about to cum, its one of my many turn ons.
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He said he’s not quite sure why “but it does depend where it’s about to go also” which makes sense if he’s trying to cum on a certain part of me. Can be useful to know! Lol
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Omg I am with you on the denial and edging it’s a massive fantasy of mine too 
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As I am getting close I tell him that he is going to make me cum and he can then decide whether to let me or not
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“Sir… Permission to cum please?!” 
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My partner always lets me know when he’s about to cum- I honestly find it so adorable!
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This is what I yearn for 
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This is my reality Good behaviour and I get permission!
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That’s amazing 
so lucky to have found someone worth submitting to xx
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I once shouted out yuba duba doo. we couldnt stop laughing.
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I do always because he has the habit of losing the spot when I’m near, me shouting I’m going to cum is my way of saying STAY THEIR LOL
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Try to give a countdown so they can say WAIT!
or we can do it together
Same. And for same reason. She might also tell me “no, wait!”, so it’s sometimes a question
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I haven’t done in the past but Mrs S seemed to enjoy it last night when giving me a blow job so will do it more. 
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