Does everyone announce they are cumming?

It depends on whether I’m allowed to come or not (Chastity).

If I’m being edged but not allowed to come then I have to warn her.

If I’m allowed to come then there tends to be a continuous stream of unintelligible racket from a few seconds before to a few seconds after my orgasm.

Over the last couple of years my orgasms have become more and more intense so I can’t stay quiet even if I want to.

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I find if my other half tells me when he is going to cum it makes me wanna cum myself so this way we can cum together or as I start to orgasm it pulls him over the edge too lol :slightly_smiling_face: xxx

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Definitely helps push me over the edge. Not always the desired effect tho :rofl:

Nope, normally worried about taking myself out of the moment. More physical clues for the husband than verbal ones.

I second this! I usually just go very quiet, I have to focus in case the moment vanishes!

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This thread is so interesting to read! I have found that male partners almost always announce they’re about to ejaculate… Not sure why? I will usually say something like “I’m so close” which almost always means “don’t you dare stop exactly what you’re doing because it will ruin it” :joy:

I actually love it when they announce though as I find I can then usually time another orgasm to coincide with theirs and that is my absolute favourite! There’s something about coming at the same time isn’t there :heart_eyes:

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I do but my OH never tells me. I think I like her to edge me into submission so it helps with that!

The wife does but I tend to be quiet when cumming

Think you just found your answer as to why us guys tell you we’re cumming @SexInTheCity :wink:

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I think I prefer it when a guy says he’s about to cum? I’ve had an awkward few instances where he’s stopped and I couldn’t tell whether he was taking a breather or had actually orgasmed and finished :joy:

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Like a town crier!

I have a really hard time keeping myself quiet away from home or if the windows are open (to the point that it can almost spoil it for me).

OH is a considerably quieter, thankfully, or we’d have really annoyed neighbours.

I do remember a few years ago forgetting to close the windows on a hot summer night and as we’d finished we could hear the teens next door giggling as they’d been to the ‘potting shed’ for a smoke. Oops! At least now I remember to check first.

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Always especially if OH is giving a blowjob as she doesn’t like the taste which by the way I’m currently trying to find a quick and easy way to remedy any ideas

Interesting question! My other half always says he’s going to cum a few seconds before he does and he’s particularly vocal then, I’ll tell him if we’re having penetrative sex but if we’re not and it’s oral or something I definitely get more vocal and tell him not to stop what he’s doing but don’t use those words. Can’t think of a single ex who announced it though, not anything more than a change in breathing. Tbf sex with my partner now absolutely blows any ex or anything I’ve ever done out of the water!

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I love my girl telling me when she’s about to cum, I try harder with whatever I’m doing - whether that’s giving oral or during full sex. Especially when we have to be quiet due to others in the house! Evil I know haha

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I sometimes do and sometimes don’t, just depends on the moment…

I don’t necessarily need to say because I’m loud enough that it gives the game away but yeah for the most part I’m always going to announce it, unless it breaks the mood of the scene

Sometimes, but I’ve also found that if I do sometimes I lose it (annoyingly!!)

Oh my goodness @ScarletRose I get this all the time with oral! It’s like my brain saying… “You think you’re gonna cum do you?! We’ll see about that…”

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100%!

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I ask my partner if I can cum since orgasm control and edging is part of our D/s dynamic

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