I have definitely been going through a dry spell (not literally!). I have been overwhelmed with a new job, children, parents, illness, complications and general life
So I have decided that a way to reconnect with the husband would be to have sex every night unless one of us is absent (he works nights sometimes) or we’re really poorly.
Not just saying no because we’re tired but sit doom-scrolling.
Not saying no because we can’t be bothered (he’s not been snipped yet and I’m not having any more babies. Condoms are a faff and a barrier sometimes).
Not saying no because it’s the ‘easier’ option etc etc
Sometimes I need to remind myself that climaxing actually helps me sleep better and relieve all the stress of the day.
Anyone else feel like this sometimes? Or done something similar? Hoping this will spice things up as well!
We did this
Once I opened up about my past and he got me in therapy, it was time for us to learn and grow, and we did this for 2 years lol
We were happier, more in tune, and really loved up.
It was fun too! Plus I’m the process I lost 7 stone
I’ve never found condoms to be a dampener. I have them sitting beside my bed, and it’s on in about 15 seconds and in that time the eye contact is heady. Make it a part of your sex, put it on yourself , make it fun.
I think they’re only a faff because we live in a multigenerational home. So if we’re out in the garage together it’s like we forgot the condom. Can’t leave them on the side because the small would definitely be inquisitive
I’ll take a look at the quiz, thanks!
We’re just in a rut at the moment and I need to get out of it.
Smallest one has lots of health issues too so with everything going on it’s just meant I’ve abandoned ‘us’ and I want to reconnect
No dry spell for us. Just old age. We’re both in our 70’s now and we’re determined to make use of every second of our time together so she has at least one orgasm every day and, on the days when we don’t have the grandkids we have sex of some sort.
If we’ve got the day to ourselves then we have sex.
@Delightful87 That is a great idea and you should be congratulated for trying this. As you said live just gets in the way and you do have to work on the relationship/sex. Every day is very ambitious and I wish you good luck. Please let us know how things go.
@rockstar idols! Proper relationship role models there.
Love that you make time for each other every day. That’s awesome
This is what I want to try. I know it won’t work out 100% for us due to poorly children, work, general life but just to try is a step in the right direction for us.
Been there done that- I feel it would be better to get your man snipped - I had mine done a few years after the children arrived and never looked back as it’s safe to have a quickie and no faff over using condoms
@spanking_for_fun exactly this! I have told him we need to sit and make an appointment together. We do not want any more children so it makes sense!
I have done a lot of research for him and now we need to get on with it!
Just the faff of it really annoys me
Sounds like an excellent plan.
Well done on both of you addressing a problem like this.
We often say no, as it’s easier or we will fall asleep watching Tv.
I would love to use this in our relationship, but I am way more keen on this than the wife is.