I’m going to a sex dungeon in a few weeks with my partner (sub) and was wondering if anyone had any tips or fun things/scenarios to try there?
We’ve been in this lifestyle for a few years, both incredibly kinky people and like pretty much anything so far. The dungeon is fully equipped with everything you could imagine and we are there for over 6 hours.
Feel free to ask any questions. I also thought this would be a fun section for people to share play ideas and get creative so we can all broaden ourselves and safely test our boundaries.
Happy chatting, can’t wait to hear what you lovely people say
Hubby and I (D/s) have been in this lifestyle 18 years now so I’m sure we can pass on a whole plethora of ideas to try. What sort of things do you both enjoy? Bondage? Pain? Humiliation? What you go for very much depends on what interests you.
Would be very grateful to hear any ideas you have. We are very kinky people and are very much into bondage, all sorts of impact play, sensory play, humiliation, stretching, anal, dp, heavy submission, love experimenting with toys, edging, rope play, group sex and probably loads more I havnt mentioned.
We live by the idea of trying everything once so don’t be afraid to suggest things I havnt mentioned here, would love to hear anything because it may spark a new kink
Equally if you’d like to go into way more detail and chat on something else public let me know.
Yes they have lots of kink furniture. St Andrews cross, gyno chair, spank bench, stocks, mantis chair, a piped frame that can be moved into multiple positions and a few more bits. Everything you need really
How about wax play? Roleplay? Choking? As long as you read up on it first. You could unleash you inner villiain arc with your “prisoner”. I know you sadist types are all about that
Try anything once is absolutely the way to live; I always say “it’s only kinky the first time”. I have a dark, twisted sense of humour, sometimes too much for some people
We can’t message elsewhere unfortunately, the forum doesn’t have a messaging option anymore and the Forum Guidelines disallow giving out personal information.
We do a lot of chucking and done wax play once before and enjoyed it but kinda forgot about it so I will go on the list Roleplay is something we have struggled getting into.
Haha definitely nothing wrong with that sense of humour with the right people.
Okay no worries I thought there was a chat feature on here.
Roleplay can definitely be difficult ans really you need a situation that lends itself to it, but, here.you kind of have it: you’re inviting your partner to your “pad” and they don’t know what to expect, so, introduce them to your dungeon space. Own it - own the night, own the moment. Have fun
For me I’m a male sub and enjoy being humiliated and spanked - but as you are the dom I would use your penis and play a game where you playfully insist they suck your cock but as they refuse you use more and more ways to get them to suck you - if it’s a dungeon you can use ropes to tie them into all sorts of ways
This is a great idea and may give it a go but she does know that we are going there and I understand it’s role play but that’s the bit we struggle with ahah.
I’m actually a switch which does open up lots of options and am open to them but to start with I was focusing on being Dom in the dungeon. But we will explore both sides throughout the night.
I’d just say take it slow and build tension. Really assert your Dominance over the scene, commanding her where to go. “Stand and face the wall” “climb onto that bench” “spread your legs” that sort of thing. Tease her with the physicality to build her suspense and adrenaline. Add some praise into your commands if she’s into it.
Remember as well, you don’t have to use all the equipment. It seems like a long time, but don’t think you have to use everything like “half an hour on a bench, ten mins on a cross, half an hour in the stocks” etc. Same with any toys they have available. Jump around too much and neither of you will get into the right headspace.
My advice would be to prioritise the things you haven’t experienced or can’t do at home.
Have a look at the furniture/equipment list and see if anything jumps out at you as something you want to try or do again.
Don’t make the to do list too long or too specific. That way you have time and flexibility to make the decisions based on how you are feeling in the moment. You don’t want to find they have something awesome but it just doesn’t fit into your plan for the day
