Any tips on how to do these?
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Thankyou 
How about for you? How does switching work for you?
I switch all the time. I love being a Dom and Sub. Best of both worlds 
So you could take three hours each, either starting off with you in charge oe her, depending on your preferences.
Working with @AJSTAR 's idea she could be your boss for the first half and you could “discover” some juicy intel on her, having her do as you say to keep you quiet for the second 
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Yeah we will probably split the time up so we both get enough time to play around.
This is a great idea, I love it! I’m loving all the role play suggestions and is definitely something we will try but it is something we struggle with so if you have any other kinky suggestions I’m all ears, either me Dom or sub I don’t mind.
Is there anything you haven’t tried before that has caught your eye, or something that one of you has experienced, that the other one hasn’t?
Not really, we are both very open with eachother and have experienced a lot together but equally that’s why I’m reaching out to people on here to see if there’s anything we are missing out on. We’ve done 3-somes, 4-somes with both genders, remote toys, all sorts of bondage and rope play, chastity, stretching, long and short time edging, spitroasting, pegging, temperature play and more.
But the thing we haven’t explored as much is me being submissive because the doming doesn’t come as natural to her so usually I am dom.
Is that something she’d be open to or is the expectation that you would be Dom here too?
Yeah she’d be open to it. In the dungeon we are both going to switch it up and both Dom and Sub
I had my OH restrained in a sex swing at a dungeon last weekend. Used ankle and wrist restraints to lock her in. Moved the ankle ones so her feet were clipped to the swing chains behind her head, folding her over to leave everything very exposed.
You seem pretty darn experienced, so apologies for missing that in my first response. Search BDSM on Reddit, there are tons of ideas there.
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Damn!! This is very hot and I love it. Definitely going to use the sex swing in that way!
Yeah we’ve got a fair bit of experience but on here to keep things fresh and spicy 
I did have a look on Reddit but my interaction were quite hostile and toxic so came here where everyone is lovely 
That’s good! One I thought of for you last night, how about boot or cock/pussy worship? Not that it’s my jam or anything, it was just an idea… yep!
Just to add, that’s why I don’t Reddit too. As mentioned I’ve been in the kink community almost two decades, yet got treated like I’m fresh meat on Reddit because I asked a damn question about rope bondage. If you’re not ready and willing to fight to defend yourself over there, it’s terrible, and it was why I was so angsty about posting here the first time. I’m glad the folks on the LH forum are much nicer and more mature!
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Don’t think boot worship is our thing, even though I do love some thigh high boots on her but who doesn’t What would you consider/ would do for cock or pussy worship?
With Reddit I did fight my corner with what I posted and was polite about it and in multiple groups actually got banned for fighting my corner. So I’m don’t with Reddit. So so so grateful for my pleasant and mature interactions on the LH forum
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Not my thing personally, though I do love a man in power boots. So generally with cock/pussy worship, there’s lots of kissing/licking/complimenting/sniffing/praising, but there’s no sucking or trying to get one another off, at least not initially or without permission. This is about worship, not pleasing! Also, if there is any getting off, you lick one another clean afterwards - this is about worship, remember!
Banned? That seems a but harsh? I think some mods in some places can get a bit power-hungry, honesty. I’m on a benefits advice group on Facebook (I’m contesting my PIP review at the moment, hence being busy) and I found that 8 years ago they were super helpful, but this time there seems to be some snarkiness? It’s not helpful, and if you can’t be helpful, why bother posting?
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Oh I see, I thought the worship would’ve involved pleasure as well but this totally makes sense why it doesn’t. I’m adding this to the list. I also love the punishment if not followed 
Yeah some mods definitely get a bit power hungry, I was fighting my corner and then suddenly banned for the post not being relevant and I’m not bothered enough to fight that. I totally agree if you aren’t going to be helpful don’t get involved.
Do you have any fun ideas from a Dom and sub role involving toys and equipment we have in the dungeon? Sorry if I’m asking too much, I just being educated and learning cool new things
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It can eventually, but it’s not about that initially. It’s about worshipping your partner like a God/Goddess and only pleasuring them if they instruct it.
A classic example of power hunger then, “I’m a mod, bow down before me”
Depending how well you know one another, you could create a list of 20-30 questions before you go. Tie one another to a piece of equipment ie a rack and ask the questions. If they get a right answer, they get kissed wherever they choose. If they get a wrong answer, you get to punish them (not too hard!) with whatever has caught your eye. It’s a great way to have fun and try something new 
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I don’t mind bowing down to people but not mods online 
We’ve been together over 2 years so know eachother pretty well. Yeah that could work, I can definitely think of some questions! We also both love being punished
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Potato-pot-ah-to. Power is power, ain’t it?
So there you go then, just don’t make the questions too easy
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Oh I’ll definitely make the questions hard, start a little easy to give her a little taste of what winning is like before she gets punished
I feel slightly bad to keep asking but equally any other ideas keep them coming or even a list . They can get more extreme, we definitely aren’t vanilla and love to explore. Also love talking about and brainstorming this stuff
You cruel, cruel man
I think I’m out at the moment. Hubby and I aren’t really into extreme kink but then what’s extreme to one I suppose is tame to another anyway braistorming is always a good idea. Is that something you’ve thought to do with your partner as well? See if she has any ideas she wants to try?