Yeah that’s fair enough, doesn’t have to be extreme just thought I’d say it can be but I appreciate all the help and advice you given me! If you think of anything feel free to message.
We actually chat about it a lot and pretty much do everything we ever think of and chat about. Pretty lucky in that respect.
You’re very welcome, I’m happy to help 
Better than in this household 
we pass ideas off then fall asleep and usually forget all about them!
Here you tried
Electro play, tickling, both being subs to another dom, food play eg Nyotaimori being a serving plate at the dungeon while you hear your partner played with.
I don’t want to go over things already mentioned so will re-read and see if I can come up with other options. Especially as you’ve said nothing off the table including you 
Haha that only sounds like half the fun, you should definitely have a note book you can write stuff in so you don’t forget and then tick them off when you do them!
That’s an idea! It doesn’t help I’m kinkier than hubby is so I know some stuff will be a no-no, but that’s the beauty of non-mogoamy - it doesn’t mean never, it just means not with him!
@JGood I did think to suggest tickling but it felt so basic and probably been done before haha. Electro play and fire play (if permitted) is fun too, my sadist has a likening for zapping me…
Tickling will be off the table. And I don’t think actual food is something we’d want to try but we have done like chocolate spread on the body and licking it off.
Electro play is definitely something we’d be interested in. Don’t have the equipment and never tried but if the dungeon do have a kit do you have any advice for it?
Yes feel free to come up with anything, happily open to chat. Never any wrong suggestions, not everyone can have the same kinks but you never know until you know
Yeah that’s the beauty of it, you still get to have all your fun and don’t feel like you are missing out on anything! It’s a lovely way to be.
Yeah tickling is a no from us and electro play I’ve seen but fire play I havnt heard of. May sound simple but what is that?
will you have access to it? Some places have a charge (no pun intended!) for E-stim kits as it’s quite expensive equipment. If so, start low voltage and never, ever use it on the face. Also, rake attachments tend to distribute the charge over a wider area.
Not totally sure if the dungeon does have it but will keep this in mind if they do and remember not to use it on faces. But the one I hadn’t heard of was fire play!
It’s kind of like wax play, but not. Instead of dripping wax you are allowing flame to flicker close to the skin, creating like a light, warm, licking feeling. The key is to use low temperature fuels and never keep the flame still - you want to create waves of warmth and sensation, not burn your partner or set their body hair on fire!
I’ve seen it done with torches (not LED, obviously!) at an event and we were talking about it for weeks afterwards!
Oh very interesting! Never heard of seen this before. I can imagine paired with sensory play like blindfolds this could be amazing but I definitely feel like I don’t have the experience for that… Yet 
Why blindfold? Never heard of fear play?
Speaking of, how are you on knife play? You did say you weren’t against extremes
Sorry that this comment is no help, but ive never known that there was places like this in the UK people could go too.
Im kinda interested now 
No I havnt heard of fear play! We like sensory play tho because by taking one sense away it heightens all the others and can make stuff feel so much better.
No havnt done knife play either. Now we are entering the realm I don’t know so some explaining may be needed.
Just to clarify now we don’t like drawing blood, permanent marks, toilet play or water play. Those are our hard no’s
Yeah there are quite a few dungeons across the UK. Definitely recommend
That’s fine, so fear play is purely psychological, and it’s based on what might happen, not what will happen. You could put a switchblade on a table in front of her, right before you blindfold her. It doesn’t mean you’ll use it, but she’s still going to be thinking about it.
Knife play, you can get dummy knives online that look real, but are completely blunt and retract into the handle. Remember she’s blindfolded? She’s not going to know. You could hold the “knife” against her and tell her to stay still and not argue, otherwise you might have to hurt her (with a spanking, flogging, sensation play etc, whatever you decide). Depending how sadistic you like to be, you can even give her the feeling of being “cut” - get a thin slither of ice and run it slowly against her skin. It will melt against her but the dripping water will feel like blood. Believe me, it’s very effective
Another one I’ve thought of, predicament bondage. You could start simple: tie her to the bed with a glass (maybe use a plastic beaker to avoid any accidentally broken glass) 3/4 with iced water and place it on the small of her back/sternum. If she moves, it will spill and you can punish her accordingly!
It’s been a while since I’ve interacted with a fire flogger.
@luke.buzz have you tried an ice dildo?
I prefer “fire floggee”
Sometimes the simple pleasures slip by us.
You are the literal plate for the dinner experience while you partner is the plaything for the dungeon you are blindfolded and laid on the table bound or not it’s your choice. Unbounded it’s your job to stay still.
Then the finger foods are placed all over your body and people normally don’t use anything but their months to eat the morsels off of you. Occasionally there might be an errant bit of sauce that needs licked up especially at dessert time. Drinks can be drunk via a straw and include an appendage to stop the straw falling over.
It’s the submission to everyone else’s whim and the fact your OH is not in your control that’s the crux of the play plus you can leave the table until everything is finished. With has been in the past the OH’s job.
But again there’s so much diversity in what you can do and a spectrum of possibilities that this description is not your cup of tea but it might spur an idea.