Okay for us I definitely think knife play at the moment is a bit too much but will definitely keep it in mind, especially the ice cube trick, can see how that’s quite effective.
I guess we’ve done fear play before on a mild scale where I’d go to spank or whip her but don’t actually and then she flinches.
Predicament bondage is something we are just getting into. I’ve tied collars and anal hooks to things in stress positions and if she wants to relax the collar gets tight or the anal hook pulls deep
If you also have a front and back door. Not talking about the female human body.
Leave via one and quiet come in through the other 5 minutes later can add to the fear play.
Or while out for a walk at night.
@luke.buzz All these require talking through first. And with anything mentioned before, I’ve witnessed couples playing and suddenly hit on a trauma they had buried decades before.
Ah yes this does sound very fun! Can really Invision that I think that would be something we’d be up for in our next group play. I’d probably end up being the table and would be tied down and blindfolded. I love hearing her moans so would be quite a turn on.
We’d probably add a twist where I also get played with or spanked and teased and punished if I drop anything
Yeah we are very good at talking and communicating with eachother, so everything is talked about first and obviously have safe words but thanks for checking.
Seeing as you like to hear your partner moan I’d deprive you of that pleasure and hold the toy or have the body of that has been giving that please come near your nose so you can smell but not taste the results of it. That’s option 1
I’m about to have dinner, more to follow. Be patient and good and I might do at least two punishments and two new options.
Thankyou for mentioning traumas and communication. Given Luke has expressed previous experiences I’m going off the belief that communication is already fairly robust, but past traumas are always worth a mention and consideration. The checklist I have and use has a space for those, but a forum would be void of them without a reminder.
30 minutes of listening to the judges of Strickly come dancing complain about a missed step. No wait that’s mine.
Punishment 2
Cock cage and a vibrating prostrate dildo. Just don’t come or the vibrations are cranked up. It leads to the question, how quickly can you drain the reserves.
Punishment 3 and also an example of Option 2 is breath play.
Have a dom sit on your face, you open wide and cannot like taste them lick them or move but can swallow what ever you are given and they can use your face as they wish to if you cannot stop yourself from licking or closing you mouth you will be paddled while caged and plug 5 swats for each transgression.
Option 3
Urethral play. You use a urethral sounding tool to massage the inside of the penis. Masterbation from the inside out.
Option 4
And this is extremely rare to see is nettle play, make sure you have soothing cream available also the person holding the nettle needs to wear gloves
I wonder if you have heard of the last one @Tenshadesandme I’m guessing you have
I think that would be something we’d be up for in our next group play. I’d probably end up being the table and would be tied down and blindfolded. I love hearing her moans so would be quite a turn on.
