i have been trying to do some research on the best long term wear toys, especially buttplugs and have a couple questions i just can’t seem to get a definitive answer on.
i have found that the best shape for a buttplug that is going to be worn extensively is a lollipop shape, thin long neck and bulbous head but i can’t see many of these on lovehoney. i love the feeling of metal as i have this plug:
which is 5" in girth which i can take after warming up, needs very little lube and just feels so much more slick than my silicone plugs. i believe that it is possibly too short (or stumpy rather) so isnt ideal for long periods of time. length isnt really a problem for me so my main problem i am having is finding something around the 5" girth that is metal or glass which has a long thin neck but still has a head which fills you up. i dont know, maybe i am being wayyyy too specific but thought i better hit the forum and see what the experts have to say!
what i am currently looking at is the b-vibe range, unfortunately they are WAY out of my price range and are silicone so not perfect but here is the links:
i have found this glass one: https://www.lovehoney.com.au/product.cfm?p=32887 which seems really awesome but i am wondering if the neck is too large for extended use and may be bad for my bum? also the rose bud plugs look really really nice but wondering if they have the same problem.
i have seen the booty buddy posted often as a good long term plug but i feel as though it won’t stay in as i have the curve cruiser and it doesnt stay in at all.
i have found that the majority of people say go for silicone due to its flexibility, i just find it very frictiony compared to metal so figured i would be better and enjoy it more with metal or glass.
and lastly, are there any other toys other than buttplugs/prostate massagers that can be long term worn for men? that is just for my own curiosity.
just a couple side notes which i feel like i may need to add for clarification:
i completely understand that glass cannot be thin at the neck but wouldve thought there would be something in metal which could do this (in the b-vibe kind of shape).
i am somewhat experienced in wearing buttplugs for long periods i have done 6 hours or more and have never had problems.
my lube i am looking at using is the fist it water based lubricant.
i am located in aus so i believe i can only order from lovehoney.com.au so i have limited options such as this plug: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25809 which seems pretty perfect but not available in aus.
my current plugs are:
metal large lovehnoey butt plug: https://www.lovehoney.com.au/product.cfm?p=40512
doc johnson mood naughty butt plug: https://www.lovehoney.com.au/product.cfm?p=21229
Jelly rancher rippled butt plug: https://www.lovehoney.com.au/product.cfm?p=33016
i absolutely appreciate anyone who is able to help or has anything to say on the problem!!!