Until a couple of years ago I'd never been able to find my g spot - then I discovered it and had some pretty amazing orgasms from it when alone. I gushed a couple of times. I've had a long dry spell due to pregnancy / hormone issues but now my sex drive is back and my husband has become very adept and finding it and doing a great job. It feels like if we keep it up there's going to be some squirting, I just need to get more relaxed. However, i would love to be able to get there on my own or with a toy while he watches - problem is there are just so many g spot toys and I have no idea where to start! I've only ever had bullets which I used when I discovered it but it was tricky and not the most comfortable way of doing it. My husband mentioned earlier he would enjoy watching me use a dildo of some kind so I'm thinking I should get a curved one but which I don't know, whether I should get a vibrating one or not, etc? I am quite short and have a small vagina so I don't want anything too enormous that would be difficult for me to insert. Any recommendations from the experts?
This was the first silicone dildo to ever make me squirt https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22767 and it’s still one of my favourites a couple of years later. It’s quite manageable in terms of size and not too intense for a dildo beginner :)
Ooh, and a bargain too - win win! Thank you :)
Dirtywife I really like this for a nice dildo (you can two different ends you can play with)
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22769:
If you are looking for one that vibrates i can also recommend:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36939
I have reviewed both these products if you have any questions let me know about either toy.
Thanks Vanessa. I really can't decide whether to get a vibrating one or not. Sounds bizarre but I've never really used a bibrator internally - it never used to appeal to me, I've always just used them externally, so I don't really know how much better it would be with or without. This is one area I'm a bit clueless! Is the vibrating one quite loud? Don't want to wake the kids or annoy the neighbours! I suppose if I get a vibrating one I don't have to turn it on all the time, but maybe I should get a cheaper basic dildo first and see how that goes!
I've got the same one as NatandTom, I bought it quite recently. I would also recommend it! It's a good size for someone not wanting anything huge.
Vibrator wise I like this one and it's quite slim, with a fantastic curve!
I've got this 1. And it's definitely my fave g spot vibrator can use without vibrator if you want.
First toy that helped to make me squirt was :-https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36044&ReviewPage=1#customer_reviews
I still love it and it always does its magic.
First toy that helped to make me squirt was :-https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36044&ReviewPage=1#customer_reviews
I still love it and it always does its magic.
It is not silly to know if you want vibrations or not... with a standard dildo you will be able to have the penetration and place movement / pressure on your gspot. With a vibrator it will add that vibrating sensation internally but you can always turn it off and just use it as a dildo if you prefer. The one I shared it not overly loud.
Do you own a wand? I sometimes will just hold the wand on a dildo so send mild vibrations up the toy... that may give you an idea if you like internal vibes.
I love glass or steel dildos for G-spot stim....I prefer to have a partner use one on me, rather than myself.
I love glass or steel dildos for G-spot stim....I prefer to have a partner use one on me, rather than myself.
NatandTom wrote:
This was the first silicone dildo to ever make me squirt https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22767 and it’s still one of my favourites a couple of years later. It’s quite manageable in terms of size and not too intense for a dildo beginner :)
I think this was my first dildo and it's a little demon, still use it regularly. Definitely worth the full price and even better on offer. You mention you are not tall, well i’m only 4ft 7 and never had any trouble with this one so you’ll be fine!
I did prefer rabbit vibrators to start with but now I find being more involved actively controlling the dildo improves the mental side of things, if that makes sense.
If your still on the hunt may I recommend this, it's very cheap and certainly packs a punch, my Mrs absolutely loves it.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36310
She loves it that much we ordered it's sister, which arrived today that we have yet to try, which is here
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36309
My partner has never squirted but the top one (not used the other as of yet) certainly makes her very very wet. And I'm sure she will squirt once she becomes more relaxed 😊
I totally agree with Philntez https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36310 is sheer perfection! I've only just bought it so had my first go today...used clit balm cause I often need a little help - but I didn't with this - I have never squirted - but very near to today! Can't wait for my next go....time for a shower and a little play I think! ;)
The best dildo I own is this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33670 not the cheapest but it feels amazing.
I love this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37263 with this on https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20090 😊
Just having a read through all the various g-spot toys and it had me wondering...
You see, we read up on the various different areas for stimulation and have heard loads about how mind blowing 'g-spot orgasms' are but, and this is likely my fault, we dont seem to be able to give my OH one with the g-spot alone. In fact if she isnt playing with her clit, she doesnt climax (unless already very aroused and otherwise ready to pop).
We are going to invest in these more specific toys and try again but any other thoughts are most welcome. Cheers xxx
Phil, it's not your fault at all! I didn't have a g spot orgasm until I was 33. I'd never been able to find it, didn't think I "had one" and then boom, it just seemed to appear one day (and I'd already been looking!). I was only able to have a g spot orgasm on my own with a toy that was awkward to use and definitely not designed for the purpose, hence my quest!
We've had a long sex break for various reasons but are now back to it - my husband gave me one for the first time last night. The thing is, in my case at least, it takes a lot of pressure very specifically located in order for it to happen and for quite a while so I guess it's not the easiest thing to do for someone else. The way we got it to happen was me telling him every single time that he'd drifted away from the right spot, and telling him every time when he was doing it exactly right, and eventually he managed to feel what he was doing and then it was awesome.