I have some items which can make me cum hands free. A fuxxing machine with a sleeve attachment, a Fleshlight Quickshot Launch and a Rocks Off vibrator which she straps to my penis using a couple of adjustable cock rings. I love it when she puts me on any one of these, orders me not to come then sits back and watches me fight.
If I had to choose one toy for ever though it would be the 8" dual density dildo that she pegs me with.
My wife would probably choose her midi wand as her favourite. She can control it, and herself, to give herself quick, slow or multiple orgasms as she wishes.
My wife’s favorite toy is her Womanizer (Pro40) as a standalone, or We-Vibe Melt (better for use together, but it’s her #2 for solo).
My favorite toy is also my wife’s Womanizer. I love how much she loves it, I love watching (and hearing) as she fights against it sucking the orgasm right out of her.
For anal toys, a graduated set of buttplugs is a good place to start for either man or woman. Recommendations from that point on I’d vary based on who’s asking and what you hope to accomplish.
Haven’t used a finger vibe, but I think you’d get equal or better results from a good bullet, probably more power, too. Some folks swear by the We-Vibe Tango bullet, I believe, and we have really liked the Romp BEAT vibe as a solid bullet/small internal vibe.
There are quite a few, actually. But if I were forced to pick a handful, I’d be a bit lost without my quickshot launch with my spiked scrotum ring/leash combo, my metal chastity cage and my wife’s favourite strapless strapon.
Everything else we have is just icing on the cake.
My personal favourite is the LH Thrill Clit Stimulator (I wrote a review for it here).
About a year and a half later, and I’m still yet to find anything else I enjoy more
For me it’s my Stroker but saying that I haven’t got that many toys, my wife loves her bullet vibrator as it’s guaranteed to make cum
Solo masturbation or during PIV sex she always cums with her bullet