@rockstar @Yes_man thank you for the advice, itās definitely something Iām gonna do some research on before I take the plunge.
I just needed something to top up my basket to move to the next level of discount so thought f*ck it and ended up starting with something smallish and silicon.
Stainless steel is the best though
Just had a quick look online and there are inflatable silicone sounds, which, with lube might be a way of you expanding yourself so you can then accommodate larger steel sounds.
[Although I have to say at 1.5cm that sounds (forgive me) as pretty large already]
I would steer away from silicon ones, i found the texture a bit rough even with lots of lube, much prefer stainless steel.
with hindsight I totally agree but I needed a Ā£4 item lol
Hey, tried the inflatable sound and it was useless for my needs. Yes 15mm is quite big Always get a good reaction from those who have seen it!!
This thread has rekindled my interest so I started out this morningās session with my penis plug in. She was quite keen on using a stroker or sleeve on me and I didnāt want the ring o the plug to catch so I took it out.
Due to various circumstances 99% of our sex sessions are in the morning.
Sorry to sound thick - what does sounding do ?
No probs, suppose Itās hard to explain why, primarily there are medical reasons for why people have to sound but typically like a lot of medical practices it made it in to sexual practices, I believe originally first started by the gay community which is how I sort of got in to it being Bi but now practiced widely by those wanting to try something that bit different!
Obviously the penis is like other sexual organs, there are millions of sensory nerve endings especially in the urethra and its an alternative way of accessing them, you can have amazing orgasms whilst sounding.
For me now Iāve gone that bit further, it likes those who do anal stretching, itās a challenge to see how big I can go, obviously safely, it also offers a different type of stimulation as well as a visually looking amazing.
Thanks may give it a try
Slightly off topic - can I ask why?
Didnāt buy one yesterday but was tempted.
I have never used a silicon sound, was it an issue with the material or something else?
For first time personally I feel stainless are best as they are more controllable, plus they seem to stay lubed better, silicone sounds seem to dry up a bit. And with silicone being flexible if youāre a bit tight on size they can be more difficult to insert.
That being said for masterbating and sounding play I always use stainless but I have got a 13mm silicone sound in the shape of a nail and I can wear that for a longer period as with it being flexible it I can wear it under my clothes even when Iām not erect. And due to the drying lube issue its a couple of sizes smaller than I can take to make removing it no problem.
Itās all down to whats best for you and how far your prepared to go.
Why! Thats the big question, I did it years ago once as a youth during some play with a previous boyfriend and thought it was ok,
then I saw it again a few years ago whilst watching some gay bondage porn and it got my juices flowing and me looking in to it and found it was very popular in any setting. Thought what the hell and bought a couple of plugs and loved the feeling. From that moment I was hooked and want to see how far I can take it, which so far is quite a way.
Sorry for being unclear ā¦ why did you find the inflatable sound didnāt help you stretch?
The urethra is very tight just in from the opening and thats the bit that needs stretching, I probably canāt say what Iāve seen other do to get around this, I found the inflatable sound just expanded around it rather than stretch it and didnāt do anything for me. But thats my personal experience. Prefer to use plugs and sounding rods.
Has anyone tried a vibrating sound?
Would you be surprised if I said yes, and it was ok. X
I tried a silicon one, it did nothing for me.
I have a vibrating silicone one from LH.
I find itās good just in shallow kind of targeting your glans from inside. Produces an intense forced orgasm, for me anyhow. I dont use it often as I canāt be bothered with all the sterilising etc but when I do it is worth the time and effort.