If you want to try out a doll but you live with others and want privacy what would you do
Have you got a bedroom to yourself ?
If so, then do it in the privacy of your own room and make sure that no one enters the room.
If not you might want to try the bathroom 
Anyone else think this is a wind-up?
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Yes! If people working in other careers that involve long and unsociable hours can make relationships i donât see why working in hospitality would be a bar to meeting people, in fact itâs probably easier.
Plus setting up more than one topic asking the same question and asking the same question numerous times in those topics, despite the good advice given seems very odd. Also the list of requirements seems difficult to fulfill.
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If you wish to try a doll out and do other stuff and sometimes wear underwear or be barely clothed if inside with summer and youâre not only one living in that house what options are there for privacy if you canât change circumstances at moment
Seen on a competitor underwear site and some interesting stuff,
Those womenâs sports crop tops that look more like a singlet could a guy wear that if they bought that and a guy bottom half in same design in the home
I think your options are very limited. In that situation Iâd be sticking to porn on my tablet and masturbating quietly. 
What other options are there until you can have your own besides cabin and apartment which adds up in costs
You could see if any of your housemates would be interested in a âwanking boxâ? Itâs basically a big cardboard box in the living room that you can go in, and while youâre in there everyone agrees to ignore anything they accidentally see/overhear.
If a big box is out of your price range, you could try the budget model of the head-size one instead. 
You could ask around the local shops, they have plenty of big boxes theyâre dying to get shut of this time of year.
I have seen such boxes in appliance stores but until now, did not realise the purpose and often wondered why there were strange noises comming from inside the boxes. With Christmas only a few weeks away, there should be loads of ânew wanking head boxesâ available at your local recycling depot from 26th December onwards.
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What options are there besides cabin and apartment to try a doll out or wear underwear or be barely clothed during summer if inside if you donât want to do it home or not only one living there
Get naked with the doll in the aforementioned box?
This could be a new product bundle for LH - sex toys that come in a box thatâs large enough to put over your head for added privacy. OR with additional boxes to put over your flat mateâs head if you need more room.
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Is there anything that can be done to meet girls other than school or uni until you can change jobs and/or get your own house to have more privacy with things, hearing of people finding it so easy even with the restrictions and feeling a bit left out.
Heard of someone that recently found someone all because of school
What is clues that it might be time to change jobs and what do people do to try to get through and hang on a bit longer.
Last time that had the experience with a girl was in 2005 16 years ago when
a cousin went to year 12 school formal and was 18 at time so was she and am
now 34 will be 35 in july this year and thatâs how long it was.
Canât afford to hire a social companion and also wondered wether am just going to have to do what rest of the younger people do these days to meet people that age even if not is all a good thing and take chances
also know someone else who is suspected to have found a friend and some people even with coronavirus restrictions find it so easy to find someone.
does having your own house and space make a difference or it it likely work environment,
what else would make it easy for people to find someone.
just feeling a bit left out sometimes and dont know what to do
Sometimes things are hard and so desperate also that you wonder how your grandparents old trailer thatâs barely roadworthy (which would be ok for around the local area) would go travelling at 100km/hr to adelaide or that youâll take another shortcut
just want a friend to do stuff with similar age and finding it so hard because am always working when younger people are out doing stuff and leaving the food industry to do something else isnt yet a option and trying to hang on a bit longer.
that person whos suspected to have a friend would him not working sundays make a difference
what is a professional way to ask and explain how youre feeling after the main owners 60th. if theyre still there, hoping to cut out the food and concentrate on the secondhand side if theyre still there otherwise start a part time business of your own.
with meetup how do you setup one for your area if theres none already setup in a country town
how do you talk to girls in hope of making a friend.
Thanks
It is tough, and these past couple of years have certainly not made things easier.
Itâs possible to meet new people no matter what job you have, or what your living arrangements are, or even with Covid restrictions - but each scenario will have different limitations (anti-scoial work-hours, no place to meet up privately, restricted budget, can only meet online until lockdown is lifted, etc, etc). And living in a rural area with a limited pool of people and no easy access to transport will make things harder again. All of these can make things more difficult, though none make it impossible.
But sometimes we need to make changes to our lifestyles to put ourselves in a better position to achieve the things we want. Itâs rarely easy, and can be quite scary depending on the size of change you want to make. For instance, changing jobs can be something that can get you closer to the life you want (maybe different hours, or more money, or just less stress), or moving to a different area (more people, more jobs, or just a new start). These are big decisions though, and only you can decide if theyâre realistically achievable, and if theyâd be worth the effort.
If youâre looking to find someone to chat with, you could try joining online groups that are centred around an interest you have (or want to start getting involved with). That can be a good way to âmeetâ people that you have things in common with. Some forums (like this one) donât allow people to share contact information, and most others wonât be okay with people using them only to trawl for dates - but they would be fine with anyone wanting to have a friendly chat about the subject they centre around. Shooting the breeze with like-minded people can be a great way to alleviate feeling lonely. There are even plenty of topics on this forum you could join in with. 
But, like I said previously, there isnât a magic pill that can solve this. Finding a partner involves meeting people and being sociable, whether online or in-person. The more people you talk to, the wider the net you throw, and the more chances you have of clicking with the right person.
I hope you can work something out. 
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working weekends is probably one main reasons why its hard.
changing jobs isnt yet a option even though it may make things seem better and wondered what you can do to hang on until the time is right to change jobs with different hours and get out of hospitality.
waiting until the workplace changes owners as am only hanging on because of them however am starting to think about it even though am not doing anything yet as probably wont last more than 5 years or past the main owners 60th especially doing what am doing and itll probably take that long to come up with something anyway.
sometimes with a job you got to try hang on a bit longer if you can.
what is reason why older generations push themselves until breaking point even though they dont want to do that job anymore or are showing clues and try repair their job or last 30 years and this generation changes jobs like iphones.
am part of the younger generation and so far lasted nearly 15 years or in a couple years itll be that long
Hi @daisy202027 , I get what youâre saying about not wanting to give up a career but throughout this thread you seem to be saying the reasons you canât meet someone are because of your job and your living arrangements.
Job wise, yes, you work unsociable hours but so do other people. I would suggest trying a dating app, you might not find the one but at least youâd be able to get out there and go on some dates, there will be other people who work similar hours who would probably appreciate a mid week lunch date instead of a Saturday night. However, if you truly believe that itâs your hours that are preventing you having a social life then you have no choice but to change them. What difference is it doing it now compared to in 5 years time when you plan to anyway?
Iâm sorry, it may be higher but I canât remember now are you living with your parents or in a share house? Either way, it shouldnât matter. Youâre in your mid 30s and are therefore plenty old enough to have dates come over to the house and stay over without your parents or house mates objecting.
You say you live in a small town but do you have a driving license? If so, get out, go places and meet people⌠not necessarily for dating and sex but just for human interaction and socialising. A lot if people end up in relationships due to meeting friends of friends. The more youâre out there, the more people youâll meet though I fully admit Covid restrictions have made this a lot, lot harder but there will be sports clubs or classes or something you could join in with.
I hope you find something that will work for you but it sounds like you are going to have to make some changes to get there.
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What is reason why australians arenât applying for hospitality jobs or are leaving as it reopens after shut down
And whatâs reason this generation doesnât last 20-30 years like previous generations did in jobs
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Iâm afraid I fully admit my knowledge of the Australian hospitality industry is limited to say the least⌠but Iâd assume the reasons people are leaving is the lack of job security, minimum wage and the many, many reasons you have complained of in this thread?
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