I’m really sorry but I honestly have no idea what you’re expecting further to whats been suggested above already.
What I think is irrelevant, it’s your life situation and comes down to what your priorities are - simply put, it seems you cannot have it all without changing something and reprioritizing.
Really not sure what you mean by ‘short term solutions like older generations would do’.
Will leave you to figure your own way around this, plenty of info and advice above, and if there’s still no solution, you may just find the problem could be you (not meaning that as direct as it sounds - I spent many many years blaming everyone, situation, circumstances for me not getting what I wanted, and strangely, the actual problem was always me and the way I viewed the world!)
Older people used to make do with something until they get what they want and that’s what am trying to do but other people don’t make do like they used to they always want best
Hi everyone
Was wondering how and what is the best way to find a girl to do things with and hang out with?
Looking for a girl to do intimacy with and go out with and talk with and spend alone time with and a lot of other stuff.
What would be best way to find a girl to do those things with fast that doesn’t cost much if anything to hire anyone and/or pay for services?
What’s is best way to find a companion to experience intimacy and massages with that doesn’t cost much if anything?
What is best way and how do you ask a friend or a person you know or a friend of a friend if they’d be happy for you to experience those things in a way that’ll increase your chance of getting a yes?
All that is at least until you get a girlfriend.
It’s a bit hard because of coronavirus restrictions and your living arrangements and not having your own lounge, bathroom, kitchen and living facilities where you’d have your own space and have somewhere to isolate if you were to go to the places and happened to get caught out.
Some of the places particularly escort facilities are hard because you don’t know if any other people there have been to a hotspot which will mean you may be a contact and because you live with people and share same facilities it’s hard to isolate separate if not impossible.
It’s also hard because of your job and working in a job that’s not normal business hours, however place is up for sale and will be out once sold or after a time and doing something closer to normal business hours and/or work your own hours, however am planning now because while place will probably take a couple years it also could sell quick.
Where can you go with girls to experience intimacy and do stuff with when you live with other people which you are usually ok with at moment.
How do you ask girls if they’re ok with doing those things with you?
escort places are good for single people to get fast results but have heard it’s very expensive if doing it regularly so therefore looking for something a lot cheaper
cam shows aren’t exactly same but seems a way to practice talking to girls but that’s it and seems nearly as expensive as a face to face session
If anyone has ideas that’d be great
I think you asked this question back in Oct 21 so maybe worth @Lovehoney_Brenna merging the two so you get the best answers
Why do you keep staring a new topic asking the same question 
Refer back to the older topic you started for the answers.
Not having much luck still and just needing someone to talk with
At moment can’t do anything about the job even though am planning a way out.
And it might be upto 10 years before am able to do anything about living arrangements as am wanting to buy.
Just can’t find a girl yet and part of it is because of the job.
Is there a way to do it the way boomers used to do it or will you have to do it the way current generations do and do it online if that’s what it takes and be careful
But you’re still going to get the same answers, regardless how many times you start a new topic.
Have you considered a very open and honest profile on dating sites anyone truly genuine will hopefully read and understand and be genuine if they reply ? just a thought …
Is there a way to do it gave to face like past generations did
Like go out and talk to people you mean … that’s a lost skill ! people only know how to converse by phone now don’t they ? 
It’s a bit hard at moment worth what’s said in first post
The only way I would suggest is to get involved in a hobby or interest which has a club that holds regular meetings and increase your social circle that way.
The other way would be to meet people through dating apps.
Being in hospitality am usually working weekends and holidays which seems that’s when most events happen
Perhaps just stop looking someone will come along when its meant to be ?
Have you asked co-workers in your situation what they do for a social life and for a relationship?
People house-share and work 12 hour shifts and manage to find time for both. It’s a juggle but can be done.
Good Luck
Thanks going to need it 
Also what is best way to ask a friend or a friend of a friend that’s single if they’re ok doing it in a way that’ll get you a yes and incase chance
And it is a lot harder when working when everyone else has off however is not impossible but it’s a lot harder, what could be done until you can work closer to normal hours and/or work your own hours
Best abstain from feeding trolls.
Hello @daisy202027 . I’m a little confused to whether you’re after a relationship with someone or just sex? I’m medically retired now but used to work shifts and over all the stat holidays (was a nurse) so never got to meet people socially at parties. I was also very shy in my younger years. Hubby and I met through online dating (as did 2 of my sisters), so if you are after a relationship, then online dating worked for us… though we are going back nearly 20yrs and some of your dating aps today seem to be more about hook ups for sex only but it all depends what you’re really after. I wish you luck, it can be very hard socialising and trying to start conversations with people you’re interested in. However asking if they want to go out for a drink sometime may be all it take. Good luck 