Is it because when it got shut down people had to find other work and discovered they can earn more in same or less time and less demanding in other jobs
Is it also because they probably weren’t going to be there much longer anyway after doing it for 10-15 years
Is it also because of all the extra requirements and people are tired
How come people these days change jobs more than older generations did
Hi
Is there anything that can be done to meet girls other than school or uni until you can change jobs and/or get your own house to have more privacy with things, hearing of people finding it so easy even with the restrictions and feeling a bit left out.
Heard of someone that recently found someone all because of school
What is clues that it might be time to change jobs and what do people do to try to get through and hang on a bit longer.
Last time that had the experience with a girl was in 2005 17 years ago when
a cousin went to year 12 school formal and was 18 at time so was she and am
now 34 will be 35 in july this year and that’s how long it was.
Can’t afford to regularly hire a social companion and also wondered wether am just going to have to do what rest of the younger people do these days to meet people that age even if not is all a good thing and take chances
also know someone else who is suspected to have found a friend and some people even with coronavirus restrictions find it so easy to find someone.
does having your own house and space make a difference or it it likely work environment,
what else would make it easy for people to find someone.
just feeling a bit left out sometimes and dont know what to do
Sometimes things are hard and so desperate also that you wonder how your grandparents old trailer that’s barely roadworthy thats only really ok for taking rubbish to local dump would go travelling at 100km/hr to adelaide or that you’ll take another shortcut.
just want a friend to do stuff with similar age and finding it so hard because am always working when younger people are out doing stuff and leaving the food industry to do something else isnt yet a option and trying to hang on a bit longer.
that person whos suspected to have a friend would him not working sundays make a difference
what is a professional way to ask and explain how youre feeling after the main owners 60th.
if theyre still there, hoping to cut out the food and concentrate on the secondhand side if theyre still there otherwise start a part time business of your own.
with meetup how do you setup one for your area if theres none already setup in a country town
how do you talk to girls in hope of making a friend.
just want a friend to hang around with regularly, what is best way to go about it when you always work when most younger people are out doing stuff.
sometimes feel left out and feel like that you dont have anyone and also feel like its not happening in a hurry.
how do you find a girl during these coronavirus restrictions.
joined a local mens shed and 4 years later am still enjoying it.
also with the imlive chatrooms as theres lots girls on there would that be a good way to practice talking to girls in the hope you find one.
and not having somewhere of your own is a bit hard to have people over unless you keep paying for cabins and apartments.
Thanks
@daisy202027 I suggest you have a read of the responses above this post as this seems to be mostly a repost of your above post 
things will likely be way they are for quite some time atleast job wise
Only you can make the changes if you’re not satisfied with how your life is going. Change isn’t going to come to you, you have to go out there and do it for yourself! Good luck x
Hi everyone
Was wondering what you can do to find a girl to hang around with and if there’s still hope to meet people the way baby boomers did or if we just have to accept meeting people is now different and just be careful.
most younger people work during week and have weekends off and events happen on weekends that doesn’t happen in the work week and because of that and being in the hospitality industry it makes it hard and wanting to get out at some point and do something else that only works normal business hours.
What can you do to find a girl that doesn’t involve paying for escorts all time even though occasionally hiring a companion won’t be too bad until you can change jobs and living arrangements.
At the moment the time isn’t right to change careers which will probably make things easier and trying to hang on until the deli changes owners.
Do you lot think it’d be a good idea to plan a way out now even though am not doing anything in a hurry because very unlikely to last longer than the owners 60th in 3 or 4 years and may be doing well to last that, she’s 57 now and it’ll probably that long to come up with something.
Giving it till the owners 60th to see what happens.
Have also some business goals and wish to reach them in next 5 years.
At moment am happy enough where am living, it’s hard having people over and like to have own space to have people over and that’s making it hard.
Eventually will have own house but am waiting until am able to buy and until then am happy with current living arrangements.
What makes it easy for other people to find a guy or a girl or friends similar age. Is it the hours they work or what is it.
Based on reading a lot of the above, I would suggest actually reading the replies, and perhaps being ‘teachable’. Really not sure what your posts are trying to actually achieve.
Clearly asking the same thing time and again isn’t going to solve your problems, and to my knowledge no one on the LH forums has a magic wand to improve this for you.
If nothing changes, nothing will change.
Either accept things as they are, or accept you need to change something.
Eventually am going to change careers which will make it easier in some way but at moment the time isn’t right and waiting for it to change ownership before doing anything
Do you think it will or is it upto you
Giving it 4 years to see what happens
Wanted a medium term solution until it becomes a option which might take a long time
Feeling positive it might take a long time and need a short term solution until then like older generations would do
I’m really sorry but I honestly have no idea what you’re expecting further to whats been suggested above already.
What I think is irrelevant, it’s your life situation and comes down to what your priorities are - simply put, it seems you cannot have it all without changing something and reprioritizing.
Really not sure what you mean by ‘short term solutions like older generations would do’.
Will leave you to figure your own way around this, plenty of info and advice above, and if there’s still no solution, you may just find the problem could be you (not meaning that as direct as it sounds - I spent many many years blaming everyone, situation, circumstances for me not getting what I wanted, and strangely, the actual problem was always me and the way I viewed the world!)
Older people used to make do with something until they get what they want and that’s what am trying to do but other people don’t make do like they used to they always want best
Hi everyone
Was wondering how and what is the best way to find a girl to do things with and hang out with?
Looking for a girl to do intimacy with and go out with and talk with and spend alone time with and a lot of other stuff.
What would be best way to find a girl to do those things with fast that doesn’t cost much if anything to hire anyone and/or pay for services?
What’s is best way to find a companion to experience intimacy and massages with that doesn’t cost much if anything?
What is best way and how do you ask a friend or a person you know or a friend of a friend if they’d be happy for you to experience those things in a way that’ll increase your chance of getting a yes?
All that is at least until you get a girlfriend.
It’s a bit hard because of coronavirus restrictions and your living arrangements and not having your own lounge, bathroom, kitchen and living facilities where you’d have your own space and have somewhere to isolate if you were to go to the places and happened to get caught out.
Some of the places particularly escort facilities are hard because you don’t know if any other people there have been to a hotspot which will mean you may be a contact and because you live with people and share same facilities it’s hard to isolate separate if not impossible.
It’s also hard because of your job and working in a job that’s not normal business hours, however place is up for sale and will be out once sold or after a time and doing something closer to normal business hours and/or work your own hours, however am planning now because while place will probably take a couple years it also could sell quick.
Where can you go with girls to experience intimacy and do stuff with when you live with other people which you are usually ok with at moment.
How do you ask girls if they’re ok with doing those things with you?
escort places are good for single people to get fast results but have heard it’s very expensive if doing it regularly so therefore looking for something a lot cheaper
cam shows aren’t exactly same but seems a way to practice talking to girls but that’s it and seems nearly as expensive as a face to face session
If anyone has ideas that’d be great
I think you asked this question back in Oct 21 so maybe worth @Lovehoney_Brenna merging the two so you get the best answers
Why do you keep staring a new topic asking the same question 
Refer back to the older topic you started for the answers.
Not having much luck still and just needing someone to talk with
At moment can’t do anything about the job even though am planning a way out.
And it might be upto 10 years before am able to do anything about living arrangements as am wanting to buy.
Just can’t find a girl yet and part of it is because of the job.
Is there a way to do it the way boomers used to do it or will you have to do it the way current generations do and do it online if that’s what it takes and be careful
But you’re still going to get the same answers, regardless how many times you start a new topic.
Have you considered a very open and honest profile on dating sites anyone truly genuine will hopefully read and understand and be genuine if they reply ? just a thought …
Is there a way to do it gave to face like past generations did
Like go out and talk to people you mean … that’s a lost skill ! people only know how to converse by phone now don’t they ? 
It’s a bit hard at moment worth what’s said in first post
The only way I would suggest is to get involved in a hobby or interest which has a club that holds regular meetings and increase your social circle that way.
The other way would be to meet people through dating apps.