If you don’t have the privacy for a girlfriend at where your currently living then I doubt very much then a sex doll is going to be any different. Sex dolls are big and bulky. Why don’t you just invest in a realistic fleshlight or something similar which is small. Don’t forget you need to leave these products out to dry.
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How would you get the privacy other than cabins and apartments without shifting out before you are financially ready
How would you get the experience of real thing
When most young people start courting they don’t have a place of their own, they just work around it.
Hospitality isn’t the only job with unsociable hours, think police, fire brigade, hospital staff etc, more or less any industry, they manage to find time to make relationships work.
If you are unhappy in your job and you think it’s stopping you forming a relationship, leave that job. If as you say hospitality is short of workers, it should be easier to find a job that suits you.
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Also are inflatable dolls you know the those ones that look like real women the more expensive ones are they the real feel,
You got the cheap ones that has a picture that looks like a real girl then you go to open it the item looks like a toy.
Then you got the slightly more expensive inflatable ones that actually look like a girl, wondered if those are a real feel
I found the inflatable one’s a bit of a let down.
Just buy what’s in your budget and what you realistically can fit in your space
There are very realistic sex dolls like the Roxy. She will look and feel quite like the real thing but if you had that money to spend you would be much better off buying a car plus as @Deanna32 said, storage would be a problem. It would probably be easier hiding a real girl!
The inflatable ones can come with a somewhat realistic vaginas, ass and mounth but they are never going to feel like a real woman. The Naomi has some positive and very informative reviews. This is the full selection available on Lovehoney. I suggest you have a thorough read of the reviews as some are very helpful and will probably answer your questions.
Honestly though, I think you’d be much better off quiting your job as you seem to blame it for most of your problems. Having worked there as many years as you say you are clearly not a teenager so it is really important to get out and get your own space. Could you take a job where accommodation is provided? It might not pay a lot but for your independence would probably be worth it?
I think you’re looking for something that you’re not going to find I’m afraid without changing how you go about it.
There isn’t anywhere you’re going to get “role-play, lingerie and leather pants and heels and leather crop top and same but latex as well and slowly build up” without changing your viewpoint as you keep dwelling on the negatives in your situation… You have been given lots of advice.
You say you can’t afford to pay for an escort for these things…you don’t have your own place…you want your needs fullfilling. A sex doll is hard to hide and maintain. You are going round in circles and keep asking the same thing. It’s not easy but it IS do-able…but you have to want it and work around it.
People do work shifts…people do house share…people manage to find ways and make relationships work. There will be others in your situation…more than you think.
Ask around if there are any social events on your time off. Look for a different job with better hours…as you are no further forward from when you first posted. Read through what you have written and the responses you have been given and think about making a change or you will be stuck in this situation for a very long time if you don’t.
I hope you find what you are looking for.
Good Luck.
Have decided not to stay long if at all when place sells or when owner is 60 whichever is first and hanging out for the current owners.
Am getting a move on with job plans as it could happen anytime
Plus was brought up to start small and work up
Hopefully you will have good news about your situation soon then @daisy202027
Fingers crossed.
Jebus that was woeful 
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hi everyone
first off am going to run through what have done so far.
because am not going to stay at the deli any longer than needed if at all once it sells as its up for sale have been doing as much as possible to get closer to what am wanting.
on gumtree have bought a secondhand entry level electrical test and tag machine for now incase shop sells really quick even though itll probably take a while, even then may be able to do some occasionally on side.
once am in it then will upgrade equipment and keep old machine as backup for when main one is off for calibration.
also have sent away for replacement tafe certificate as lost it when moving (did a test and tag course in 2005 and moved in 2007) and that will soon be on its way.
all going well then should be able to look at doing refresh course to get it upto date instead of the whole course (wont know until package arrives).
at moment machine is in getting calibrated so its ready to go.
also might look at tv antenna installation and odd jobs to add to it.
second, am wondering how you would go about getting a friend or someone you know to introduce you to a girl that you could talk to and try going out with as found out the sister is seeing someone and while you are happy for her it makes you feel left out.
just wanting a girl to talk to and hang around with on and off and doing everything possible to get closer to what am wanting.
would there still be a way to meet girls like young people in the day did in the 80s-90s or are you just going to have to do online even though youd rather the old way
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@daisy202027 sounds like a plan.
How about joining a club or night class?
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how do you get a friend or someone you know to introduce you to someone
Ask them? Say you are looking to make some new friends and possibly date and do they know anyone
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how would you be able to get the experience being in bed or whatever else with a girl once of course you been talking a while.
if you cant afford a $800 doll which is what the real thing will cost what would other option be and what do you do about privacy without your own place other than paying for apartments every week
Have you read any of the comments that people have made? People have taken the time to give advice and you keep asking the same questions.
No one is going to be be able to tell you what to do to have sex with someone. If a person wants to have sex with you they let you know. If they don’t let you know, then they don’t want to have sex.
Are you over the age of 18?
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would something like this filled with pillows and you buy the feet/hands/neck and stuff give the real thing.
when talking to girls how would you ask what was said or at what stage would you ask once you talk to them.
how do you find a partner for fun.
what is safest way during cornavirus to get close to girls and how do you find and ask girls out
is there also cam girls that dont cost a fortune if anything where you could atleast practice