Okay I’ve seen you have asked this question a few times already and you have loads of answers pretty much saying the same thing as I will say.
What your describing is life and it’s what me and millions of people round the world are in. You have to prioritise your work, love life, family, hobbies, health and friends. Some get 90% where others might only get 5%. Only you can decide what each get according to what suits you best.
Your not the only one in your situation and life sucks lol but you have got to make the best out of it. If you want a partner then you need to prioritise your time and work out how you could balance everything out. It’s hard, life is hard but if you want it badly you do it.
When most young people start courting they don’t have a place of their own, they just work around it.
Hospitality isn’t the only job with unsociable hours, think police, fire brigade, hospital staff etc, more or less any industry, they manage to find time to make relationships work.
If you are unhappy in your job and you think it’s stopping you forming a relationship, leave that job. If as you say hospitality is short of workers, it should be easier to find a job that suits you.
have liked it in last 15 years however its gotten harder and less staff in last 2 years and have goals that would like to follow at some point and just dont plan to do it forever.
what would your reasons why hospitality is short staffed.
before coronavirus we rotated took turns covering the weekend shift but since or just before coronavirus people have left.
when new owners take over what is a professional way to say that you have moved on or leave once you found something else and how long should you stay with the new owners once they take over if you do stay only until you found something else as have worked at same place with old owner 15 years.
where theres a ideal time you should try stay at a place you work before moving on and not looking like a job hopper is it the place/business you work at that counts even if it changes owners or is it the owner that counts where you should try stay with new owner for a certain time even though you did same thing with old owner 15 years.
the remaining workers and owners are like family and thats why am still there plus still working things out and was taught to never leave until you worked something out as it may take a while
I’m not sure where your from but in the uk unfortunately hospitality and businesses are struggling with how the economy is. There wanting less staff for more work so a lot of people are getting out of them jobs. It’s not looking like things will be getting any better.
The left found better jobs and decided not to go back to hospitality. With the cost of food, gas, electric and fuel business are simply struggling. Customers are struggling to afford take aways as often as they once did again because of the price increase. I work In a pub and the same thing is happening to us
when new owners take over what is a professional way to say that you have moved on or leave once you found something else and how long should you stay with the new owners once they take over if you do stay only until you found something else as have worked at same place with old owner 15 years.
where theres a ideal time you should try stay at a place you work before moving on and not looking like a job hopper is it the place/business you work at that counts even if it changes owners or is it the owner that counts where you should try stay with new owner for a certain time even though you did same thing with old owner 15 years
shop is for sale and could sell any time
when you find something else what is a professional way to leave wether or not it changes owners or how do you professionally ask to cut the food side out and work only in the secondhand
Maybe going on the dating site and just be open,put it in your profile about the kink side of things and other things you like and i know in time some one will pop up thats liking the same thing
This may come across as a little blunt, I don’t really mean it to be, but baring in mind this same question pops up so often without a resolution after so long, to me it sounds like you need to stop making excuses. If you really want it then you’ll find a way around it, like everyone. Everyone has commitments, works long hours etc. With so many channels of communication, there is no easier time than now to connect with people.
yous probably know that you dont always have to leave on bad terms, sometimes you can just have goals you want to reach and you may be just waiting until the time is right.
sometimes the time might be right when the place changes owners which you are just waiting for or sometimes the repeated coronavirus lockdowns might push people out of the food and retail industry and follow their goals instead.
is it the place you work at that counts even if it (even if it changes owners and you leave a week after they take over if you stay) where you should try and stay a certain time and not look like a job hopper or is it the employer that counts where you should try and stay with them a certain time even if youve been at same business 15 years with old owner
I’m sorry to be blunt, but I’m bored of this now. We’ve gone round and round in circles. If you’ve changed nothing in your life and keep asking the same question, you’ll get the same answer. Maybe this isn’t the right forum to be repeatedly asking this if you’re not getting the answers you seem to want.
I suggest moving away from the keyboard and taking a long, hard look at your situation, draw up your priorities and then make a plan that works for you. With all due respect, we are not living your life, so you cannot expect us to have the answers to these questions
What other cheap alternatives are there that have the real feel, are the mannequin close enough
What other ways are there
Do understand the more expensive inflatable doll has closer to real feel on a budget or maybe same cost as a budget full size one but wondered if there were other alternatives and if modified full mannequins are close enough
