Hi I’m new to the forum. I’m 39M. I first found my p-spot when I was about 18 and on first contact, had an immediate orgasm. Oh to still be so easily pleased!
Currently I’m using Lelo Loki. I get to the point where I feel like my whole body is trying to squeeze its way out of the end of my penis, feels mind blowing! But I can’t get it over the line and it’s driving me crazy!
I have read posts about patience and frame of mind…but any advice on how to get to the big O would be much appreciated
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Hi @Romani 
Welcome to the forum!
I don’t have the right anatomy to help with your P-spot tribulations but I’m sure others who can offer advice will be along soon. Just wanted to say “Hi” and “Welcome”.
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Hello @Romani welcome to the forum. I’m afraid I can’t help as like above I don’t have a P-spot I know there are a few threads about super orgasms and the P-spot. Might be worth having a look.
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Welcome unfortunately having a vagina doesn’t qualify me to offer advice. I’ll just say that you have to be relaxed to be able to let go and get the best that sex can offer. Have you tried google searches?
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Thought I’d throw in a link to this thread, Anyone had a P Spot Orgasm?, it’s got some good advice in it that you might find useful.
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Not p spot related but sometimes if its been a while since I’ve masturbated, I want to feel the rush of the orgasm really quickly. And it doesn’t, and its frustrating and then I lose it. So instead I make myself focus on how good the build up feels and then the orgasm comes all on it’s own.
The mind is powerful and can make or break an orgasm. If you have a partner you could ask them to be a part of it and you could watch them masturbate. Or find some porn, just something to distract you a little.
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Check out this thread! Loads of info and advice based on lots of experience.
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Thank you for the welcome!
I will persist and check out the other threads.
The vibrator feels so good and gets me so close that my mind automatically thinks “Omg this is it, this is it!”
But of course at this point, it becomes “Not it” almost immediately and there’s another frustrated reset
Welcome to the forum! Have you tried using your fingers once you get to that place of nearly going over the O line?
Thank you, and thank you for the tip. I can’t reach with my fingers unfortunately! Have never been able to past the first knuckle!
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Lol! That’s ok as I’ve often found when your near to that pleasure moment from using a toy it makes all the sensitive parts around the anus extra stimulant so you could find just by tickling around with the anal muscles it could reach the orgasm your after 
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Hi there Romani
I can relate to your predicament, I to used to own one of those toys and found myself in the same situation. So I tried different types of toys and found that I got that same feeling again by using a girthy dildo or inflatable butt plug. Could be worth a try if that’s what you are after.
Cheers.
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I am thinking of looking at a new toy. The lelo feels awesome but I have to use a lot of effort to hold it in the right spot
Oh ok. Maybe something inflatable is the go. I know it’s definitely puts pressure in the rite spots for myself. I usually take it to that point where I’m about to orgasm then I give it one more pump and I’m there, every time.
Nice ok, thanks for the recommendation. I haven’t tried anything inflatable before but I’ll have a browse!