Well, I don’t know where to begin…
Hubby and I have talked for a long time about experiencing threesomes/foursomes - just as fantasy really.
We are childhood sweethearts - so lucky to have found such an amazing connection when we were young, I’ll always be grateful for that.
However - this means that we skipped a whole phase of going out dating, fooling around a bit and exploring bisexuality.
I’d sometimes think how hot it would be to to get my hands on a woman’s body, I didn’t know if I’d even like it - but it’s something that I would have loved the chance to explore.
At the same time, it wouldn’t be that big of a deal if I never did because I have everything I need in my relationship/marriage - it’s just an extra bit of fun (how greedy of me)
More recently I have opened up about my desire to visit a sex club - for the experience, to watch others and to see what it’s all about. Never had any real intentions to get fully involved at that point. Hubby wasn’t too keen on the idea as he doesn’t really enjoy trying new things or large social events.
Over time - we discussed it more and more and together, were started to really enjoy the idea of trying a threesome. The more we talked it over, the more we discussed what we would or wouldn’t want and thinking about any personal boundaries that we would have.
It was also at this point that we thought we would want to look at having fun with other couples so we could play with another male and female - altogether.
After really serious consideration - we decided that we actually wanted to try our fantasy out for real and get into the swinging scene.
We have spent the past 6 months - networking with other swingers, getting a real feel for how things work.
Making friends, understanding what should be avoided and constantly communicating with each other.
So far we have had a couple of fun, social meets with friends - I experienced some FF play for the first time (so much fun) but we really wanted to visit a club and meet other people to find a suitable couple for us.
It was around April that I purchased tickets for our first sexy party, booked a Hotel for after too - however, it got cancelled and we had to wait until July until the party could finally go ahead.
I spent months in excitement - waiting for the day to arrive, hubby was more nervous but a little excited too!
We bought new outfits to wear, got ourselves dolled up and rocked up to the party - we were the first guests to arrive (talk about eager beavers)
On arrival, we were greeted and shown around the venue - everyone brings their own alcohol, puts it out on the table and helps themselves during the night.
We got a drink and found ourselves a seat near the entrance so we could eye up all the guests as they arrived - see if there were any potential couples that we were attracted to.
We sat and had some general chit chat with other guests as my hubby managed to get through 4 drinks to calm his nerves.
By 9 - the party was about to get started. We were mingling away, drinks were flowing, clothes started to be replaced by sexy lingerie and nakedness.
I’d now had a few drinks myself, although it felt a little surreal - I still felt at ease and comfortable enough to strip off into something extremely see-through and revealing so I could really get stuck in to the party! It helped that my hubby was already naked in the pool and I could see he was clearly having a blast.
Anyway, I won’t bore you with all the details of what happened that evening but let’s just say we had such an amazing night.
We didn’t find a couple that we wanted to do a full swap with but we did have a little play with others. We also got watched while we were having our own fun together which was pretty hot in some way.
I didn’t go with any expectations, just for a new, kinky experience and that’s certainly what we got!
The next day, we went for a big breakfast (I was a little hungover) and talked it over in detail, communicating with each other about what we loved and what we didn’t, talked about our thoughts and feelings during what was happening and afterwards.
So now we have a better idea of what we want next time, what we are prepared to happen and which boundaries we have.
We have decided that we would like to visit some other clubs so we can dig a bit deeper into the world of sex parties. I very much look forward to that Hopefully our freedom remains and we’ll get to visit another club this year.