Their parties sound interesting but the “Killing Kittens” name really puts me off. It certainly doesn’t suggest female empowerment to me. Having said that, if anyone has attended, I would be interested in hearing about it too.
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Hasn’t a prob actress Zara du rose run and organise events down south? Zdr events rings a bell? They parties look pretty good from the reviews I read on twitter
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@Cupc8kes I think personally I’m way too insecure, inexperienced and shy to try a club etc… even though I really want to.
I know that doesn’t make sense at all but my desire to get more experience doesn’t take away the fact I have a complex about myself (which I have spoken about on another forum) so thats great you both go, have fun and once you leave both of you are still happy with each other, quite unique really 
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I admire you for at least considering the idea and have always been a fan of @Cupc8kes for going to these plays and always welcome her comments and experiences. I don’t think you should put yourself down @Curious-Girl. I hope you build up confidence to consider things more and may be dip your toe in and try things.
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@steve19 Thank you. Maybe I will one day, as someone said I think it would be a good idea to have people/a person to go with.
Oh deffo not local as I may bump into someone I work with though 
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I fully understand the bit about not going local or bumping into someone you know. On the plus side they would probably be as embarrassed as you. I think @Sophie01 has the best idea where she is planning to go with a few friends at least then you will be a little more confident and presumably can not participate if you decide you don’t want to. Keep an open mind @Curious-Girl
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@Curious-Girl
You know, you might actually be surprised if you were to pluck up the courage and go.
There’s such a range of people from all walks of life - some very interesting and unique. But lots of people feel comfortable with themselves and their sexuality.
People are open to socialising and discussing their kinks.
It’s nice just to experience it, even just to socialise with like minded people - without pressure of anything else happening.
Some people go, just to enjoy the environment and watch others without participating in anything themselves - and that’s OK.
I would definitely recommend finding someone to go with - I’d never have had the courage to go by myself x
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@Cupc8kes Thank you alot of self confidence is in my mind, I have a male friend who has said yes to coming to a club and just watching etc.
It will be good to meet like minded souls, I will look into it in more detail
Thank you lovely, full of advice and willing to pass it on 
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Booked our second club night for next week in Midlands - very excited 
Planning my outfit - I’m thinking black wet look/lace corset, black wet look mini skirt, stockings with a sexy pair of red heels 
and top it off with bright red lipstick 
Maybe I’ll get to try some of these while we’re there 
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It sounds like you will be having a lot of fun. Your outfit sounds amazing and i’m sure you will stand out from the crowd. Good luck.
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Keep us posted on how you get on and would love to see your outfit x
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Has anyone heard of Vanilla Alternative?
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i have never been but I understand there is one in Derby. I think its called the Attic?
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Vanilla Alternative is supposed to be a good one.
It’s on my to-go list for sure!
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Lucky girl and the outfit sounds hot!!
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I wanted to wish you good luck with your evening tonight out with your friends and your visit to the club. I hope you have a fantastic time. Soak up the atmosphere enjoy the fun. Look forward to hearing about your experience.
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Mmm no but off to check them out now….
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@Silkyhat Love your photos in your body stockings, Vanilla Alternative is supposed to be really good, hotel rooms on site etc. Never been but very interested x
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