Yeah the kissing thing is interesting, I was reading some sites about this and scenarios, what happens if the boundaries want to be changed when you are mid flow or there. This example was they had a no kissing rule but during the act with another couple the other man asked the hubby if he could kiss her.
In the heat of the moment do you change the boundaries or not. Communication is key. The answer should be no as thatās what you agreed of course and the other guy shouldnāt be asking but there we go.
As I say, itās the OH who is more nervous about all this, less confident but wants to go and try. It may not be for us or maybe not for her or maybe not for meā¦we shall see.
As I also read, when something is done, it canāt be undoneā¦ So lots of good advice read.
I really hope sheās an absolute nymph, takes a lead, gets in to it and enjoys it, I think with the club weāve chosen itās very night club/pub esque so you can do nothing and see nothing if you choose to I guess. That wonāt happen from what I can tell, we will have pent up sexual tension, so having sex at least somewhere in the club will happen Iām sure.
Iām the more dominant partner in the relationship, more confident and the higher sex drive, that said hers is high, probably wanting it every 2-3 days whereas I would want it every 1-2 days
Iām also wandering if we build her up that week and donāt have sex for a few days before to really build that tension. I might have to have a play though
Anyway we shall see, it will take a life of its own and we will absolutely see how it plays out.
The night we are going to is neon night so run by someone from fab. So Iām hoping that means a few games and interaction to get the crowd going, think there are strippers (although missus doesnāt really like strippers lol) and neon paint etc. Anyone been to an event in a club like that? I know it will be very very busy though.