This is something we hope to look into in the future also. I look forward to reading how it all goes.
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My goodness me! Thatās not good. Could I ask the area? Midlands, South, North?
Could we get a little more detail when you are ready.
So sorry and hope you guys are ok.
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Thatās horrendous and has put me right off ever attending anything like it
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What did i miss? I donāt see the comment that everyone is replying to. I am nervous now because this is something that we have talked about doing. What happened?
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One of the other members had a bad first experience where the atmosphere was more predatory and lacked respect, which understandably totally put them off
Yeah I hope everyone is ok.
Further update on us, weāve got issues, shark week hasnāt appearedā¦ Itās cutting it very very fineā¦I think of its not here by Friday then we will push it back a weekend.
Iāve got childcare and everything in place for the 4th but looks like no big event on that Saturday at the club. Not a major issue though just disappointing if it slips back.
The thrush is clearing up as well for us bothā¦tmi I knowā¦ But maybe it might be best to push back a week anyway to get everyone in top top condition.
Will update once we know what is happening!
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Pushing it back seems like the smart thing to do. Shark week aside, if youāve both got thrush then adding an extra person or people is irresponsible and I know that youāre both hopeful that you will be nymphs 
Keep everyone safe and clean.
It might not be a popular idea but possibly refrain from sex until itās fully gone so youāre not keeping it around as an unwelcome guest.
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Agreed with @JoCat
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Thatās exactly where we are at so donāt worry. No sex since last Thursday which is killing us but for the best. Just typical shark week is so late. I agree that pushing back is probably going to be best for all.
We will make the final decision on Friday though to be honest.
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So we are on! Shark week arrived yesterday and things are all improving so decision made everything should be all good for a week Saturday! So nervous and excited!!
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Lots of talk about what we want again and what we are comfortable with. It appears the club could be very very busy so hope if things do progress we can find space! Weāve talked to a few couples going on the other website and also joined the Kik group for it (which is very clicky) but get that people will know eachother as regulars etc so hope we can fit in so to speak.
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Things are getting closerā¦4 nights to goā¦ Still no sex and Iāve said I might deny her until Saturday which is bloody tough as she will be like a coiled spring by Saturday 
itās also tough for me although weāve agreed Iāll need some pleasure Friday night as otherwise Iāll pop in seconds on Saturday
Weāve got our grooming plan sorted, Iāve shaved my balls for the last few weeks and trimmed. Iāll shave her Saturday morning and maybe quick top up on Saturday night before we go. Sheās tanning on Thursday as well which I love as I get to helpā¦ Sheās out Thursday and will by Friday have her out fit sorted. Toys will get decided Friday night and we are finalising rules and boundaries again.
So thatās where we are up toā¦ Iāve got a slight drama over my beardā¦off or on?? Itās not out of control one, nice and shortā¦ But not sure!!
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We broke the bloody rule. Sex in the kitchen talking about it again oh well ā¦
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Even if the weekend doesnāt live up to expectations the work up to it sure has kept you happy 
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Watching this thread with interest. Few years back we almost attended chams as itās quite local to us. Baby sitter and everything arranged but I (Mr) chickened out last moment. Gutted as we never found the time to arrange another visit and I do worry this ship has sailed. Work, kids and life has just got in the way and I still wonder what fun we could of had.
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Haha you arenāt wrong mate, that said the two week break on sex wasnāt particularly welcome I tell ya. Tonight is outfit checkā¦ Weāve also got talking to a couple going who seem up for fun if it works out.
I think the OH has also now got in to the idea that itās happening and she is warmed up to it.
We shall see!
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You really should try again. Maybe try Xstatia, which is where we are off to as a bit more club vibe.
That said if it all goes Pete tong maybe not! Update Sunday
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what are you both going to wear?
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So Iāve got her a cut out dress from ASOS. It kinda has holes all the way up from bottom to top in a diagonal line. Essentially you canāt really wear underwear with it, that said Iāve also got a neon bra which sheās going to try underneath. She might wear a small white thong or I might be very lucky and sheās goes knickerless (sheās never done that)
Iām gonna be smart trousers and a shirt.
Itās neon night so Iāve also got her bright green heels and sheās getting her nails done luminous green on Saturday.
Whoop whoop.
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Sound like you two are in for a great night.
Mrs outfit sounds hot 
We havent tried xtasia yet, but heard good things 
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