Hi LH,
Long time occasionally posting and reader and myself and Mrs Richy have been avid fans of toys from LH and really expanding our sex life.
The time has come after much discussion to go to a swingers club for some fun and I know this is a topic that a lot of people post about and thought I’d create this topic as means of a journey and to help others in a similar situation(I know there’s loads of you) - if people are interested that is!
So where do I start, as I say we’ve been playing with lots of toys and having lots of fun for many years, we are long time married and have some sprogs etc. We are very comfortable and happy in our marriage and love sex. We probably have it 3-5 times a week if everything is good ( no illness, period etc etc)
We’ve for a long time now fantasised about another man in our sex lives and for me potentially another woman although I lean towards the man with my wife thing more than wanting to have another woman. This is accentuated by me using a bigger sleeve to act as a big cock, using condoms on a role play situation or doing DP using a realistic dildo in V or mouth with me in her butt etc in our current sex lives.
It really turns Mrs Richy on and me of course. So the talk has moved over the last few weeks to trying out a swingers club and Mrs R has said she would like to try it. It’s a big step but she’d like to entertain it and see whether it’s for her and us. In her words it would be daunting.
As ever we’ve read a lot of advice and discussed a number of questions and scenarios. A lot of which get us both very horny Things like, what are we going for, to go and expect nothing and if nothing happens that’s fine, what if we want to go further than agreed or if one of us isn’t happy then we leave etc, what are we comfortable with, what happens afterwards if one of us liked it but the other didn’t etc etc - I think I’ll cover more of these questions on another post as we discuss more though as there’s lots of scenarios and possible situations.
We still have much to talk about but a suitable date has been put in the diary for late February and research on a club that would suit us has been selected. The date will need to come together with a few things lining up but it looks like a really good potential.
So, that’s where we are up to, I’ll try and keep this post or thread up to date if people are interested or have any advice or questions themselves that’s cool to. If no interest I’ll disappear in to the shadows
Mr and Mrs Richy