My wife and are are looking for a new dildo. We have a couple but she says that they are too hard and wants something more flexible. It needs to have a good suction cup. A good length, without a ridiculous girth. Soft/flexible shaft. I've seen jelly dildos. Are they any good? Recommendations please.
There's a black double ended dildo that's extremely flexible and modest girth that I used to put up my bum about 15"
Ridiculous girth can differ dramatically from person to person as can a good length so it’s hard to find something super tailored, but as a couple of ideas for the average size with a softer, flexible silicone:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=5208 (I personally love this one)
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38241 (also love this one)
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16828
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30709
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34921
Vixen make some fantastic dildos, they have a soft outer layer of silicone which makes them comfortable to insert and thrust with but the inner core is firm for g-spot stimulation and maintaining shape. Not the cheapest and the suction isn’t the best but they are excellent quality, the most lifelike thing on the market and they’ll last forever.
Don’t forget a good quality water based lube. Lube can make all the difference and it’s necessary with sex toys as they tend to have some drag and friction to their surface :)