Confidence is a funny thing. If you don’t have it, it can be a rough time. But when you start to get it back, it can snowball and grow very quickly.
I’m glad you’re getting it back @Littleblondechick! Really, confidence is just you acknowledging and appreciating what’s already there and who you are: An amazing and beautiful person!
Lack of confidence is simply not realizing or appreciating the wonderful person you actually are. Once you have that confidence back, it shows and nobody can deny how terrific you are. Even if someone didn’t like you for some reason, they still know that you’re aware of how amazing you are!
I don’t say this to flatter. I wish more people would realize how special they are. So many people focus on “I’m not this” or “I wish my body was more like his/hers”. Just stop already. Realize the truly amazing things you DO have and that you ARE.
People can be so focused on what they are not, or what they could be, or what they could have, that even if they achieved what they consider the be the perfect body/personality/intelligence/life, they still wouldn’t be happy because the problem the entire time has been that they don’t see themselves in a positive light.
They could have huge breasts/slilm waist/18" cock/muscles growing on top of muscles/perfect smile/be an actual beauty or muscle model/perfect height or whatever else, and it’s not going to change how they see themselves.
This post has got to seem like such a cliche but it’s so true. I’m happy to encourage people, but compliments from others should be a bonus on top of the fact that people are awesome and that they know that about themselves.
You’re an amazing person @Littleblondechick! Fun and intelligent at the very least from what I read from you on the forums. And that goes for so many others I’ve had the honor of getting to know here too 
Edit: this post is in no way intended to flirt with or hit on anyone. Only a sincere post with sincere, non sexual compliments