Exactly! You know the saying good things come in small packages 
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Totally get that. I have no one to worry about as its just me. This forum has introduced me to lots of new toys id never have tried otherwise and im feeling good. Good enough to purchase lingerie and an outfit and post pictures. Of course I worry and cringe but its made me feel good. Something i had neglected for a long time.
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Haha yes
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I will also add whats also nice about the pictures we upload or see is the fact we are helping each other with our body confidence.
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Guess its damned if you do and damned if you dont…In others words OH HHHH WELLLLL.It what makes you feel like you,and the hell what other people say you feel confident in yourself for posting and showing YOU GO GIRL/GUYS…
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I’m in sorta the same conundrum 
Me and my OH are 100% honest and trusting of each other with nothing to hide. So when I started to worry about her finding out I realised if I did hide it, that’s when it becomes a big deal. But I’m hoping she can see it’s all good fun, no real one-on-one interaction with anyone, no friends/messages and I tend to stay away from the saucier topics and picture threads.
I mainly came for help with my personal insecurities and found such a great helpful community 
Once again found an old thread with all the right answers thank you all
UPDATE
After spending a night getting too nervous to bring it up I eventually wrote it out in a message. And she said if it makes me feel better then she’s happy 
I also wanted to reassure her it is definitely not for hooking up and getting off 
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How did I miss this post for so long ? My wife has zero sex drive due to her conditions and has told me to get a girlfriend , or several . She just does not want to know about it . She even suggested I fly to Nevada and hire a woman . Those options do not work with me very well . I have no close friends to discuss sexual topics with , so you people are my sharing and education department . I also hope my knowledge of sexual , physical mental things can help others to enjoy their life a little more . All of you are the only others to see me in mild photos and give me feedback if I look OK or not . She knows I buy plenty of items from LH , but does not know or want to know anything about the forums . Being a DIY sex guy , finding out about different toys and ways to use the toys is a great help to my self pleasure . Thanks everybody !
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As we have often said, you look damned fine in any photos you post.
It’s nice to have that someone you lean on , to tell you that you are looking good
As @anon8189768 says, you come across as an intelligent , fun and attractive person and should believe that in yourself. That’s not being conceited, it’s just liking yourself and that inspires others to like you as well.
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Thank you @Iwill i do appreciate your kind words.
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My OH has been on here for over a year @L_amp_M25 but I’ve always known she was talking on here which didn’t bother me at all I actually quite liked it. I only started on here about a month ago and we both enjoy sharing sexual activities and lingerie images on here as this is something very new to us.
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People often wonder; I started in an old introduce yourself post, which had a comment from @wildflower saying she was new here. Cheeky devil jumped on someone elses post 
That comment was linked to the lounge by @Ian_Chimp
The lounge was wishing @Peitho well as she was currently in hospital - I finished reading them and spotted another comment linked to web cam sites and porn. I read a few more comments and saw that thread was link to this thread also by Ian. So here we are.. (sorry for being nosey 
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Personal preference I guess 
For us though we have no secrets so I told him straight away. Being open with each other is great for building a stronger relationship. He wasn’t at all bothered aslong as I was happy and understood that it’s the internet and anything said or uploaded can be saved, downloaded or forwarded.
My favourite part by far is we often chat about the forum, threads or even the odd comment.
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