Your news has certainly cheered me up this morning. Communication was the key, you have both listened and by the sound of things starting to take action. Good news for both of you. 
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I’ve always been more of a listener (and overthinker) than a talker and even though i can be quite open and blunt at times i do hold back for the sake of not hurting the feelings of others.
The only question we have now is what to update our toy box with when we pretty much have everything 
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@MissGG69 glad it’s starting to work you can sort most things out taking the time to talk 
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I love this, well done for having that conversation 
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I tell people this all the time.
Rarely do it myself though.
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We are all very good at giving great advice to others but no so much to ourselves!
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@MissGG69 that’s the thing with good advice seldom people take their own advice
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Aw! This has made me smile 
Great to hear a happy outcome for you both. Enjoy getting your sex lives and intimacy back on track x
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@MissGG69 . Maybe i took your initial relay of your situation the wrong way.
If having a frank discussion has cleared misunderstandings for you both, thats great.
Enjoy the new beginning and tell him exactly what you want.
Have great fun together.!!
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I wouldn’t say it’s cleared everything up but it’s got us talking about taking steps to get us back on track which is a good thing.
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That’s a brilliant start!
As I am getting older I am getting hornier yet my oh is getting less. I enjoy a daily masturbation session and am always looking for more variations and games to achieve orgasm. I think this started by being fully shaven, this along with going commando makes me horny all the time. I like elasticated shorts or pants which gives me free access for a play at any time. I love to masturbate but stop short of orgasm, I try to last as long as possible before I have to give in. If home alone then it will be a fully naked day, this just enhances this technique.
I have a bathmate which I use in the shower every night, I start off with a slow shower over my cock and balls, being shaven this feels really horny, I then use the Bathmate and turn up the shower but aim mainly on my balls and anus. This makes my penis longer and thicker , I then take off the Bathmate and aim the shower on the head I’d my penis until I orgasm.
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I keep reading about bathmate, what is that? @Rockard
It’s a penis pump that uses water rather than the conventional vacuum pump. Get a better seal and your penis is enveloped in water. Nice feel but bit messy as u need to really use it in the bath or shower
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This is really sad to hear your husband has these views and has made you feel a way.
Personally i feel maybe your disconnected due to his comments i would be, if he has prompted you and your exploring there is no harm however you should feel comfortable. I would personally try and meet and get your desires fulfilled with husbands permission.