GF Wants to watch porn with me... I watch bukkake

I’m really into watching blowbangs, gangbangs and bukkake porn. My gf doesn’t know this. She recently suggested watching porn together as she’s intrigued to know what kind of porn I watch. I want to ease her into the stuff I watch, eventually watching full blown bukkake scenes with me, because it might open up a kinkier side to her, but I don’t want to freak her out. How do I go about this?!

Deathoftheparty1 wrote:

I’m really into watching blowbangs, gangbangs and bukkake porn. My gf doesn’t know this. She recently suggested watching porn together as she’s intrigued to know what kind of porn I watch. I want to ease her into the stuff I watch, eventually watching full blown bukkake scenes with me, because it might open up a kinkier side to her, but I don’t want to freak her out. How do I go about this?!

Do you have a favourite pornstar? Start with showing her other scenes with that person in it

Yes! That’s a great idea. Remy Lacroix is my fave and she’s done a couple of these type of scenes. Thanks!

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Deathoftheparty1 wrote:

Yes! That’s a great idea. Remy Lacroix is my fave and she’s done a couple of these type of scenes. Thanks!

Never heard of her lol. Have fun

What kind of kinky stuff do you want to get her in to ? maybe find the sort of thing you would like to try and watch that with her first

I think that's a good idea by@MickeyMinnie2709. Its good your GF has offered yo watch porn with you, maybe she has things she want to explore more with you too. If picking porn to watch, start a little more gentle with maybe fmm and see how it goes.

Good suggestions above.

Are blowbangs, gangbangs and bukkake things you would like to do with your gf or do you only enjoy them in porn? If you're not interested in doing them with her, then I second what Kinky Couple 12399 wrote. Focus on something you'd like to do irl, or - even better - on something you'd like to do irl and suspect she'd enjoy too!

If you'd like to do them with her, definitely do not start with any of those as they could be too extreme. MrsG.'s suggestion of fmm was great. Or maybe a foursome (ffmm) where both men give the same woman a facial. Blowjobs where the guy ejaculates a lot... I think you get the idea.

I'd also like to share a personal experience. We decided to watch porn with a boyfriend (now ex) and he put on a video he had saved on his computer. It was torture and extreme humiliation. I was into BDSM, but those things were way too hardcore. I didn't like it, I was scared and disgusted. Fast forward 4-5 years, I've long broken up with him and have had many really kinky playpartners. I now enjoy some of the things in that video. I like doing them to others, though. And some other things are still way too extreme for me. Bottom line, take it easy and slow.

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They’re not things I’d want to do with her, wouldn’t want to share! I’d very much want to do one with a girl I wasn’t in a relationship though if we ever broke up haha. These are all good suggestions, I think that’s the approach I’ll take. Thanks!

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I introduced my Mrs to porn with the 'art of blowjob' videos (the originals with Camille Crimson).

They're a pretty gentle starting point- nicely shot, decent music, she's in control etc., but showed my previously very vanilla wife (by no means a prude but had a sheltered upbringing with no exposure to anything remotely sexual) a load of new techniques that hasn't even crossed her mind before, like deep throating or finishing me off with/ on her boobs.

She's now more open to watching other stuff but we still keep it close to what we like to do together.

As smultron says, if I'd gone straight in with the hardcore she'd have run a mile.

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Most films from Sexart will be loving and sensual as will the Bedtime Stories series - among others available from Bettersexondemand. EroticaX is usually pretty sensual too.

Maybe start there and work up - or down, depending on how you look at it...

I hope I'm not breaking the rules by mentioning these sites - LoveHoney doesn't do videos (for entirely understandable reasons).

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It is ironic how porn films can be so helpfull, yet are so sad, if you know what I mean.

Myself and my OH watch open together but I don’t search for anything we just put one of the first videos on. We sometimes look for a video with a woman blowing big bum and boobs. I like to watch it with her so we can look at sexy role play outfits from them too.

I watch porn with my wife but keep it pretty low key with things like riding compilations and big butts. I am massively into gangbang porn but we are working towards that.

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I’m not the greatest fan of gangbang porn. I do like scenario porn, and MMF and the odd cuckold.

Can’t go wrong with some cuckold. It’s just finding that balance of what my wife likes and finds a bit too much.

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Yeah totally agree. Can’t go wrong with porn! Haha

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…and with us being in lockdown i seem to be watching it as much as I do Netflix. :rofl::rofl:

Haha sounds good to me! Just cancel Netflix now :joy:

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Do you have a certain porn star you watch?

To be fair there is a few…Sara Jay, Gwen Adora and I’m really into Sophie Anderson. What about you?

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