Many thanks Jo, makes very interesting reading.
I wont lie to you! I haven't read much of what is above! My attention span does not last that long, so sorry if Ic repeat anything that has already been said!
The last time my (well ex now) fella went mad! I blindfolded him then half way though sucking I swapped and used a fleshlight! Then your tounge is free to explore all around the balls etc!
Worked for us lol
xxx
theres a post on the lovehoney blog about giveing your man good oral, 6 easy steps! :)
Dxx
To be fair my advice although sure this has already been said is to enjoy it. Its something I personally LOVE doing, I like to be playful with it too.. and like to look up at my DH or partner depending on who I am doing it too and let them see the enjoyment in my face.
Everyman really is different, what one likes another may hate, even down to whether he comes in your mouth or over you.
there has really been some interesting reads on this thread though.
Darkhorse, it must have been a loooong weekend (x2). Are you going to give us any feedback as to how it was it?If it wasn't that great, still be positive! It can't have been your fault anyway, with so many of us giving you advice, we may have gotten confused you, er? C'mon, let us know, how did the best blow job go?
Just after reading it, and how thorough it is, just proves that I'm likely to get the mature, informative advice I have for any questions I might have in the future.
I take it a copy of this isn't given to all females during the 'birds & the bees' conversation?
Ultimate blow job?
Right, I'm going to write this as if I'm doing it to someone, that way I won't skip any details lol!
I would start y telling him to lie down on the bed.
Then I would run my hands down his body and unbuckle his belt and unzip him, take his trousers and pants off, spread his legs and start kissing up his thighs, both sides, then I'd kiss his hips, lingering on his hips, kissing him everywhere but the obvious place.
THEN I would gently kiss and suck his balls, maybe give his arse a little kiss if he was okay with that, then I'd use one hand to massage his balls softly, my other hand would hold his hand while I'm pleasuring him, then I would take him in my mouth and suck him slowly and deeply, after the first few sucks I would stop stroking his balls and then hold his cock while I flicked my tongue of the head of his cock, I'd alternate that between licking and sucking and licking and sucking, then I'd take him deep and hard into my mouth, sucking him harder still, sliding my lips up and down his erection.
Then right when he's about to come, I would either caress his balls while I get ready to swallow or I'd slide my finger inside and stroke his G-spot, then I'd swallow and suck and swallow until he had nothing left to come with,.
Then I'd hold him in my arms while he recovered and ask him if it was an amazing orgasm. And when he said Yes, I would say, you're amazing too, and I love you.
That's my ultimate blow job senario. Hope it gives you some ideas.
That's got me really hot lol...I need to open a window now
First post - be gentle with me ...... Thanks to all of you for funny, informative, wonderfully hot discussions that I've been following for a while without having the balls (no pun intended) to respond to. So here goes!
I only really discovered that I really enjoyed bjs with my last bf. Previously I'd had some not so good experiences with my ex-husband that put me off for a while.
Only a couple of things to add that really got him going. Firstly, when he was really getting there (and my jaws were a bit tense) I carried on using my hand on his cock whilst moving to his balls with my mouth, one at a time and very, very, very (VERY) gently sucked on them at the same time. I also stroked his pereneum gently, then harder, with my finger or thumb and then, sometimes, licked and sucked it too. That drove him over the edge most times - but I've not seen it mentioned before so now I'm wondering if it's anatomically okay to do that??? Please someone tell me if it's a big no-no. Logistically I had to make certain that I'd put a pillow under hime to lift him up otherwise I'd have suffocated! Having the pillow there meant that we could both see each other more easily, which was hot too.
Oh yes, and he let me know just when he was on the point of cuming so I was able to put his cock back in my mouth and swallow it - he loved it when I made a bit of a deal of that. And I enjoyed doing it too, so win-win.
As for getting spunk in your eyes. From personal experience I say no, no, no! It stings like hell. Hope you enjoyed your weekend.
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Hiya FaerieDust damned right about that gerrin it in yer mince pies!!!
TB
Welcome to the forums hun.
Why, thank you gentlemen. Glad I wasn't doing him a serious fatal-type injury .......
Wow. I think I remember blow jobs. I think I enjoyed them.
Bug Dude wrote:
Wow. I think I remember blow jobs. I think I enjoyed them. External Media
Whyfor no bjs Bug Dude? If you don't mind me being nosey!
Nexas wrote:
SmoothOne wrote:
Just after reading it, and how thorough it is, just proves that I'm likely to get the mature, informative advice I have for any questions I might have in the future.
I take it a copy of this isn't given to all females during the 'birds & the bees' conversation? External Media
LOL You think it should be given out in sex ed then?
LOL hey why not, and in the interests of equality, the boys get 'cumming first isn't winning', 'stamina matters', and 'clit piercings are because you can't find it on your own' External Media
shellyboo wrote:
Bug Dude wrote:
Wow. I think I remember blow jobs. I think I enjoyed them. External Media
Whyfor no bjs Bug Dude? If you don't mind me being nosey!
I just think Mrs Bugdude doesn't like giving them. Which is a real shame cos she is very, very good at it. I always have to ask her to do it, and more often than not am turned down, so I've stopped asking.
Do you think you current partner would tell you if you were crap at blowjobs?
Not too sure, a crap bj is better than none at all, and who likes to hurt the feelings of honest amateurs, think we would look to guide and recommend!!! First.
TB
I once had to teach someone how to give a handjob. They were a bit too....
...enthusiastic.
Bug Dude wrote:
I once had to teach someone how to give a handjob. They were a bit too....
...enthusiastic.
Ouch!
all i can say is do it how u think ur partner likes it my hubby loves me sucking his dick.....
he likes me flicking my tounge on his bellend and my teeth sliding up the gerth of his hard dick.
its getting me horny thinking about his dick in my mouth
hotmum xxx
Mucky Duck wrote:
There's no such thing as a bad blowjob, just god ones & great ones (unless it end's in an injury).
Lots of eye contact, nice & wet, lots of mmm's & enthusiam. Job done!
My OH always said that too lol.