Good Morning/Afternoon/Evening/Night (Feb14-Feb14)

MrsMcX wrote:

Afternoon Al, hope you're having a good day :)

Not too bad considering. Is everything in the packages working ok and ready for tonight?

Haha found you xxx

Yep, everything here! No batteries so no chance of something not working! These arrived:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29877
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26278
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29317
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24048

The plug is no where near as big as I thought, so that was a bit of a relief! I got the red one, so go with my outfit, but I'm definitely going to have to get the clear one too! So excited to use it, I've always wanted a sparkly one :D

But it's a lazy day today so far, conserving my energy! Haha!

Morning all :)

A complete new outfit including butt jewellery. Lucky fella.

Afternoon Lou! How are you?

Hi BJ. *blows kiss*

Oh ye, afternoon! Oops. I'm good thanks Alastor, should be out doing the shopping but I'm hoping it'll stop raining if I wait long enough, hmmm.
How are u?

Afternoon all =p

Hi FA - hows tricks?

Going alright thanks hunni. Terrorist is winding down on his Kindle Fire giving me some free time.

Hows you hun??

How's the ignoring strategy been going this week?

Yeah not working in the slightest. We're working on anger managment, breathing and giving him choices of what will happen when he throws things/ hits me and others. Thankfully this weekend has gone nothing like last weekend. Things are slowly progressing they're finally going to statement him!. So that's a step in the right direction. Though I am pretty confident that he will be more than likely expelled from school within the next month or so.

Some progression is better than none :)

Is he understanding the consequences thing?

A statement won't change things overnight - or maybe not even this year, but I'm sure you realise that.

Lou22 wrote:

Oh ye, afternoon! Oops. I'm good thanks Alastor, should be out doing the shopping but I'm hoping it'll stop raining if I wait long enough, hmmm.
How are u?

Ok thanks. Reading booklet for partners of breast camcer patients.

It sure is better than none! Yeah I realise it won't change anything, but since it was denied twice and I've spent tons of time appealing it, it's a step in the right directions for change.

He understands that if he throws one thing, I take something away from him, he throws something else and I take two things away from him ect. With time limites to get them back. After a few days without his Kindle Fire (He only got it back yesterday) I think he's realising a little that his actions have consequences. Though when he's in one of those moods he's not to bothered, it's only when he calms down it hits him.

Hi FA. Hope the apparent improvement of the terrorist continues. Xx

Has he always been like this FA, or has it got worse as he's got older?

He's got worse as he's got older SS but he's always been like it if that makes sense? He'd always have violent outbursts even as a toddler, if someone touched something of his he'd jump on them, or if they even looked at his toys they'd risk it being thrown at their head. But we'd have more good days than bad days then. Now the good days are very far between and he just seems to switch for no reason.

He's never been one to play with other kids as he can't handle it for too long, I was hoping that would change as he got older but it's just got worse really he can't stand other people near him. The violence towards me is compleatly new though, he'd always hurt me accidently but never intentionally like he does now, he'd always lash out at other people.

oooh. did i see you say about CaAMHS involvement too?