i'm a quiet one...although i'm trying to be a bit more vocal as i know wifey prefers it.
It does feel a bit on the silly side, so i have to try not listen to myself!
Probably stems back to being a kid and having to share a room with two brothers...certainly didn't want to attract any attention in that situation.
the men i've slept with never really made much noise in way of appreciation.
i think sometimes there's non verbal clues that are there, but it can be a little hard to pick them up.
When I come then I sometimes make a lot of noise.
I'm almost silent when masturbating but have been know to groan at orgasm if a real toe curler.
I'm a lot more vocal now than used to be . Love to talk dirty to her during sex and sometimes surprise myself how loud by animal groans get at orgasm. I can easily be quiet if I need to ( unlike my OH! )
yeah i love to moan especially during mutual sex
GHxx wrote:
Talking to Loves Huni, in the 'when did you last have sex?' thread and we both agreed that our men are quiet in bed,
is this a general thing for guys?
do you make any noise when you come or when you're enjoying yourself?
personally I'd love my OH to make more noise, lets me know he's enjoying it, but I wouldn't want it forced, and if he didn't feel comfortable doing it then that's fine.
If a girl was really quiet would it make you think she wasn't enjoying it? or can too much noise be a put off?
So over to you guys! (girls also post and give us your views)
xGHx
Mine's the same! Very quiet with just the odd ooh or aah. It would be nice to know that what I'm doing is nice without me having to ask. On the other hand I wouldn't like some of the grunters and hissers you get in porn!
sharry wrote:
Mine's the same! Very quiet with just the odd ooh or aah. It would be nice to know that what I'm doing is nice without me having to ask. On the other hand I wouldn't like some of the grunters and hissers you get in porn!
I'm pretty quiet but now you mention it, maybe i should try making a bit more noise!
I make quite a lot of noise and talk quite a lot all kind of wispered, I like to let the OH know I'm enjoying myself, plus it's the best way of letting your OH know which things she does that really work for me.
Phantasma is very quiet. He doesnt make any moans etc wheras i do. But conversely, he will talk a lot (which i do love!) wheras i usualy dont say anything.
apparently i make alot of noise lol i make the most noise when she gives me a special orgasm w/o ejaculation through oral which is really intense all over feeling she knows it is happening because i get uncontrollable leg spasms,this is my fav way to come (anyone else have these?)
if we are having a long tiring session by the end off it its more like loads of grunting with spit and sweat everywhere...
dkelly wrote:
apparently i make alot of noise lolExternal Media i make the most noise when she gives me a special orgasm w/o ejaculation through oral which is really intense all over feeling she knows it is happening because i get uncontrollable leg spasms,this is my fav way to come (anyone else have these?)
if we are having a long tiring session by the end off it its more like loads of grunting with spit and sweat everywhere...
See, I don't like it. The sorta warm rush through your body is great but the numb/tingles immediately after not so great, I feel like I'm malfunctioning! I also hate spasms.
i was a little worried at 1st when it 1st happened i never experianced a dry orgasm i thought that was just for the ladies lol but then violet shook my world and i could hardly walk i now cant get enough off em i find its a greater sensation to ejaculating...
dkelly wrote:
i was a little worried at 1st when it 1st happened i never experianced a dry orgasm i thought that was just for the ladies lol but then violet shook my world and i could hardly walk i now cant get enough off em i find its a greater sensation to ejaculating...
Oooo sorry, I missed the without ejaculation bit. I was talking about the really intense 'normal' orgasms with leg shakes.
As for dry. Urgh. I hate them, I get achey balls and feel frustrated! I also don't like 'running on empty' after a few orgasms for the same reason.
So add that to the list of types of orgasm I don't like. Perhaps I don't orgasms at all...External Media
WandA wrote:
As for dry. Urgh. I hate them, I get achey balls and feel frustrated! I also don't like 'running on empty' after a few orgasms for the same reason.So add that to the list of types of orgasm I don't like. Perhaps I don't orgasms at all...External Media
ooh i dont get achey balls its more off a all over body orgasm that i get she can do it with just her mouth though i need to be semi or soft or with pressure on that bit between the balls and your anus ,
and dont like orgasms impossable External Media
I used to think that I was quiet during solo masturbation, but after watching a video of myself I realise I am not. Apart from the usual moans and groans I could even hear myself muttering semi-coherent phrases based upon whatever fantasy was playing in my head!
I'm bisexual and tend to be quite vocal with both my lady and man-friend. In fact we all are and appreciate the feedback. It's a nice indicator of gratitude for a job well done!
I've only been having sex with another man for about 3 years and i'm not entirely comfortable when he penetrates me anally. He is very attentive to my vocal feedback and recognises when things are moving outside my comfort zone.
So all in all, I vocalise a lot during all forms of sex, although I tend not to be particularly loud.
I'm very quiet, unless im pissed lol then I can be a little lounder
if he/she is good then yes
Futa_deep_fisting wrote:
if he/she is good then yes
What about when you masturbate?
It varies from quiet apprecaition untik climax (usualy oh YES) to more enthusiastic to match the moment.
Some interesting points here. I personally have become far more vocal in recent years. At some point i just found myself letting go. I don't recall supressing it in earlier years though. I think some of it is attached to performance anxiety or more simply perhaps concentration. I'm certainly quieter when there is mutual stimulation going on - that is to say if we're 69ing I have something to concentrate on, and I'm less vocal (and i don't mean muffled.). If I'm the focus of attention then i can lie back and really let go. And if I'm being pegged...my God.. you wouldn't believe the noise I can make - it certainly took both my wife and I by surprise. :)
