I used have a handled dildo years ago, it was called the manrammer lol
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It’s still available.
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They used to sell it on lovehoney
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That would not help me , need a handle that has an adjustable joint and a bit longer . That way without tweaking my back I can have the handle parallel to my body with the grip between my cock and belly button . Lite weight handle , maybe aluminum or carbon fibre ?
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My wife always leaves the purchase of dildoes and realistic vibrators up to me.She tells me i always pick the most realistic ones and she gets turned on knowing i’m choosing what is going inside me.
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I’m just getting into this. I j7st got the Romp Piccili pegging kit and have been using the dil that comes with that.
Is a bigger dildo better?
Do you have to be aroused to come? Are you doing something at the front to help things along?
I am a cock slut now. LOL
Does anyone have a suggestion for a good sized dildo to ride?
Any techniques useful to come hard?
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I would say the shape is more critical than the size as the prostate is located 2-4" depth on the front wall of the rectum. A dildo with a curved shape can be better at making contact with the prostate , considering the position you are in.
Arousal is definitely important for letting go and just feeling what you feel. Easier said than done. For me it can take quite a bit of time and stimulation to start really feeling the pleasure and orgasmic sensations. It’s all about experimentation and learning what works for you.
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I am in agreement with many posters here. For some reason my wife and I have not discovered any sex toys that feel and work better than realistic dual density sex toy cocks. No so called prostate toy, anal plug, etc does anything extra. My wife continues the hunt to our expense - lol. she doesn’t get why hers blow her mind and mine are sort of eehhhhhh… Now when she and or I do me with our fingers, she does it orally, or we add in the realistic feeling cocks - oh my goodness the orgasms can compete with hers. I love orgasm frontal but those are nothing compared to multiple orgasms from anal. I get why she likes them back to back, talk about game changers.
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We have a 10 inch extra girthy dildo from here and its our favourite one. I seem to be the one that uses it more lol
Lifelike Lover Ultra Realistic Extra Girthy Dildo 10 Inch https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-ultra-realistic-extra-girthy-dildo-10-inch/70684.html
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I’m definitely the one in our household that uses dildos more than OH she prefers skin and loves the feel of cum gushing into her which ever hole it is in at the time of orgasm but that I think is going to change next week as she has bought a cock cage and said after my birthday fuck on Tuesday I’m getting my cock put in the cage for the foreseeable future how long that will be I have no idea
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I bought a prostate toy a few months ago, and have enjoyed using it solo. My wife doesn’t know I have it, ( at least I don’t think so ) . After my play yesterday, I began to consider a small dildo to use, with the two of us. I never used to think of anal as a receiver, only as the giver, but the prostate toy changed my perspective. I guess you’re never too old to learn new things. And I’m definitely old.
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I am an anal slut and love riding dildos . In my fantasy bank would be sharing a double dildo with wife . Multiple porn where couples are doing it , OMG sweet .
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Since being caged I’ve taken to doing more self anal seeing as how I can’t masturbate and like nothing more than sliding my toys into my ass.OH likes to watch also that’s when she hasn’t got a toy attached to the harness and pegging me
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Just remember not to overthink things and remember it’s what feels good for you, and what you enjoy. I spent 2 hours riding a KING COCK 13 Yesterday and the orgasm what ‘next level mind blowing’!!! I started with a 7 slim many years ago so just take your time aye.
I find the more relaxed and in the zone I am the more my asshole becomes loose and can stretch more easily. If I over think everything I loose ability, so relaxing is key.
I have an 11 inch curved tip and that is easily 2nd favourite as it hits right on G-spot 
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We’ve got to my husband sending videos to me of him doing so when in a hotel. But I want my pegging him to be spontaneous, but he insists he wants forwarned so he can be clean as to not gross me out.
Any other couples had this issue? I don’t need him to prepare me for anal, I prefer it just in the moment.
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Is that a cream pi?
I need to prep. I wouldn’t do it without. It gives me that confidence that she can go to town on me. It gives her the confidence that there I am nice and clean. If I didn’t and there was a problem it would put her off then and the next time. It’s been a long journey getting to this point and I wouldn’t want to put all that effort at risk. If it doesn’t bother either of you there are no problems at all. Go for it and surprise him. Surprises are great. 
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Yes, to be spontaneous is super sweet and sexy, but I’m a bit the same and hygiene is always also on my mind then. It’s at least a quick wash right before in order to feel good …
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I need to feel empty, both for comfort and to not be self conscious of the potential ick. So, spontaneity is great, but it still needs to be at the right time 
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I love self anal play with dildos plugs and thrusters.. My preference is 8 to 10 inch and 1 1/2 to 2 1/2 inch circumference. Of course, strong suction is very important
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