Not just related to sex toys, but sex, generally. I liked my former colleague, but everyone thought we should get together and I didn’t know how to tell them - in the nicest possible terms - that yes, he’s a nice guy, and yes, I’m a nice girl, but percieved niceness doesn’t mean we’re compatible - I firmly believed that he was a bit too nice for me.
Fast forward 12 months and he was tying me to his bed and spanking me on a weekly basis. Fast forward another 18 years and we’ve now been married 11.5 years, and yes, the sex is still great. Moral of the story? Never judge a book by it’s cover!
My husband totally loves to watch me masterbate. With fingers and toys, lots of toys. it really turns him on. Seriously he could watch me for hours, if I was able to.( it does become tiring).
For us its a intimate time, and we like to purchase toys together. He shows me what he would like to see, and I show him what I want and we usually get them all. I say, the more toys the bettet!
Wife always used her fingers for her own pleasure and never thought about buying toys before me. We were together for two or three years before I started buying toys and she says all the time that she is happy that I buy them. She tells me what she likes it finds interesting, but I buy everything, kind of like a surprise. We use them together, she uses them solo if I’m away, but I think it makes a relationship stronger and the sex even better! 10 years later and we have more toys than we can use most of the time. She def has her favorites that stay near the bed.
Yeah absolutely love watching the wife play with toys and I really enjoy playing with them with her. When we first got together she had a dildo but threw it away as we weren’t that bothered but over the years and since finding lh we’ve bought a fair few toys . The only thing we aren’t in to is buying anything bigger than me as to be honest she is really tight lol. And she isn’t interested in going bigger .
I would be disappointed in a partner that didn’t enjoy their other half having orgasms , I’d talk to them about the toys that brought me pleasure . My sexual enhancement and my husband + fwb matters deeply to all of us.
Toys are never going to replace human to human contact but they will enhance it. Engineering is a marvel.
To be honest, the largest dildo we own gets used on me! But we’ve got a few that she likes, and if she wants to use them she is free to do so. Especially if it fires her up for more intimate play.
I’m not exactly small 8” long and around 5.5” thick but I know I don’t come close to filling my OH fully.
I really don’t get the jealousy around your partner using toys or bigger toys even.
I am totally in love with my OH and want her to experience the BEST pleasure possible. If that means a sleeve or a big toy from time to time who am I to deny her?!
The visual of her gripping a big toy or seeing the gape afterwards is and will always be a huge turn on for me
I asked my oh if he was jealous or felt that i needed more, he told me not to be daft and loved seeing me take on a much larger dildo. Lets be honest most of the larger ones are way bigger than real life, and quite frankly i have full control of it too.
I would definitely appreciate seeing my partner taking a larger toy. We had the same toy you linked to @FluffyK. Unfortunately, my partner has never offered to masturbate with a larger penetrating toy due to embarrassment. She once rode a suction cup dildo on a mirror while giving me a BJ and eye full of it sliding in and out. Unfortunately again, she asked me to get rid of our toys, down to the embarrassment that our surviving family would suffer when they had to clear out if we both died in an aeroplane crash. So I obliged and asked her for her wand which she refused to get rid of. She was probably worried that she would be thought of as a size queen.
We love our toys, my collection is bigger but my husband loves to watch or use them on me, it also allows fantasy talk to open up, all the possibilities of a real 3rd person.
Love watching the wife with her toys, and also joining in using them with her, until she squirts all over, while getting a bj from her…
More toys the better…
I love watching her use toys as it shows me how she likes it, watching her in full control of the motion etc helps me understand how I can give her what she wants.
Also, it’s like having my own personal porno so I love watching her play and enjoy herself.
I love it where misses demonstrates different dildos or thrusting machine different positions speed how she wants me to insert my penis into vargina or anal I get excited wanna join but if I touch I get tied to the chair or bed
Mrs W here …
When Mr W and I got together I had no toys at all. Years ago he got me a rabbit “for when he is away”. Since then our toy cupboard has become more and more full and include vibrators, wands, Wartenberg Wheels, nipple clamps and suckers of various types … we both use the toys as and when we feel like it, and both get great enjoyment from them … very few - like the dildoes I use to peg him - are kept separate to prevent contamination. In fact I guess that my LH lingerie is a type of toy because I get hotter when choosing and putting it on, and pretty obviously Mr W gets fun from it too … so yes Mr W likes me playing with toys and we reciprocate …
Absolutely! I was first hesitant to buy toys for her because I do not know how she would react. Then some girl friends told me to buy the satisfyer, because it was going to be a win win and she loved it, then I secretly bought some more and when she saw them she was happy and excited. Now every time we start on the mood I bring the toys into bed and give her to play. There is nothing more exciting than seeing her play with them. She particularly loves masturbating while grabbing me at the same time, that is enough to make us both cum!
it really turns him on. Seriously he could watch me for hours, if I was able to.( it does become tiring).
… women using toys is absolutely my porn go-to. Whenever I watch porn (which isn’t often), my focus is watching women having orgasms … SO sexy!!
I get excited wanna join but if I touch I get tied to the chair or bed