We’ve been married for almost 30 years, its only really been the last maybe 10 years that we found it comfortable to masturbate in front of eachother
And onlycin the last 3 to 4 that mutual masturbation has been a big part of our sex life
I love watching my wife playing with herself
She generally uses toys and not just her fingers i find it such a turn on
But saying that she also gets turned on watching me
If im masturbating watching porn my searches are doggystyle sex or female masturbation both get me off quickly
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MrsH has always had toys - I think it started at a cough Ann Sunmers party. I’m not sure how often she used them but before we were married and lived together and she still lived at her parents I saw an earlier version of This in an open bedside drawer and was immediately like ‘you have to use that tonight while we’re on the phone’! She did, she did her best to do it quietly with the rest of her family in the house. Since then, there’s been a new toy of some sort for her (read ‘us’) for most birthdays/christmasses/valentines/anniversaries and they’ve always been a part of our sexual relationship. I suspect if I left it to her she’d own a couple and be happy, but I like the variety and buying her presents! She would always have needed some as she won’t play with herself with her fingers - apparently her nails are too long! I’m away with work for a week so today she’s been tasked with filming herself with a dildo for me. She gets an orgasm, I get to watch her fill herself up: everybody’s as happy as can be while 400 miles apart!
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I like using sex toys on and with my wife. I’ve always mentioned to her to use them solo when I’m not around but not sure if she does or not…
I wouldn’t mind we would get more value out of the toys 
My wife has always said she orgasms via clitoral stimulation and not penetration.
I did buy a massive see through cock sleeve as wanted to really roger her and fill her up but was a bit awkward to keep on and get inside her so gave up after a while.
I’d like to use some of our dildos on her at some point which are bigger than me. Her favourite toy is a vibrating cock ring
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My wife was quite shy and inexperienced when we met and would not dream of anything to do with sex toys.Steadily but surely over a few years this has changed.The big breakthrough came when i asked her to suck a LH realistic dildo after she had pleasured herself with it.She looked at me and said you first.I replied i would love to clean her juices off her “lovers cock” and proceeded to give her a real show as i sucked her juices off his cock masturbating as i did so.I soon blew my load all over her face,hair and into her mouth.She started moaning,grabbed the dildo back and started thrusting it inside herself again and calling out some really dirty things she wanted “him” to do to her.Afterwards she was a little shocked/taken aback at what both of us had done but had to admit it was incredibly sexy.I love watching her with a realistic cock as much as she enjoys having it inside her.
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Ive been in a relationship for almost 3 years and introduced toys to her about a year ago, she cant get enough of her lovehoney collection and i am more than happy to watch her. Id always fantasised about having a large collection for my partner and i am so happy i get to live that life. Its orgasmic beyond belief
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Im a happily married man and cant stand the thought of my wife with someone else. Am in no way interested in sharing her or anything like that but…
I think using toys on her is absolutely great. Typically she uses a clitoral suction thing for a few minutes at the start until shes had a few orgasms and then she switches to a vibrating bullet on her clit which she uses whilst i use her quite large vibrating dildo on her. I just fuck her with those until shes all orgasmed out and then i do her myself and i think that its fantastic. to be honest i’m abit disapointed when she says she just wants me and doesnt fancy the toys because i cant get enough of seeing her face when i do her with the toys. Sometimes in the heat of the moment and when shes gotten very very wet i start spooning her and myself, the dildo and the bullet are all in and out of her at the same time and i also love doing that. That really gives her a huge reaction and i just love seeing her pleasured and being the one thats given her that pleasure her. I’m always looking for new ideas to give her more orgasms in different ways
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Biggest turn on is toys and more than happy to see them put to their intended use.
Fantasy is watching a lady choosing and then enjoying what turns them on and climaxing. Hopefully on the cards tomorrow with an enthusiastic partner who is horny ASF and about to make a great memory.
Toys are fantastic, pity it look so long to embrace but now well part of sex play.
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Love when a woman gets herself off with toys. They are an addition to play, not a replacement of a partner.
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My hubby loves me playing with toys, using them on myself. We are in a little bit of a different boat- never had toys to start with, had a stereotypical mindset that all that went into the vagina was a penis. Decades later, we discovered toys and have a totally different view on what intimacy is.
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It is beautiful to watch, though cannot get the OH to enjoy mutual or solo as much as desired.
Toys are great to use and compliment together time. Can’t do without them now.
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They love it. I’m the same with my OH. I absolutely love watching him, even more when he’s wearing his vibrating CR and using his arcwave 
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Absolutely. Are dildo’s or vibes preferred to be exhibited for the OH? Suction cup is wanted to be viewed from my POV.
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Yes girl !!!
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Blindfold might work as sometimes it can feel intense or coz one at time 
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Toys are so advanced they take you to places you wish you always visited 
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experimentation is great. Need to keep an open mind.
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Definitely it all about testing … and talking enjoy
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There’s always the fantasy of walking in on the uninhibited session. Favourite/s at play.
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I have one heart dildo which is suction. My favourite is sitting on the bedroom floor infront of the mirror. He often watches me 
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Lose my mind over this. Hot ASF.
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