I have noticed the ‘hall pass’ thing come along too. I suspect it is copied from lots of American websites, blogs, and films.
I don’t think it is bad necessarily. But it all feels very forced and a little performative. Wives have always had sex on girlie breaks, however you define that - cheating, ENM, hall pass, open relationships, cuck, hotwife, whatever.
Not every wife, and not every break, but it is certainly a thing that we have all either done or witnessed since we probably started dating. I think it is mostly harmless, except for STD and pregnancies which, of course, happen if one isn’t careful, and I know of a good few ‘naughty’ babies now but a lot less STDs.
So, a hall pass seems fine, but like the hints above, it seems like something should be expected in return. Either an acceptance that he will do the same on a golf/rugby trip, or a get out of jail free card for an affair he is having.
Now, having read your other posts, I don’t think this is the case. He sounds like a lovely hubby and you have a great marriage. So, I wonder if he is just suggesting it out of kindness, so you are not left out?
My approach, for what it is worth, would be to ask what he wants from it, but I would accept it.
You could offer, for example, a proper cuck experience. All the girls know you cheat, you call him the morning after in front of them, confess in a cutsie coy way on the phone?
Or, it could just be a hotwife thing, the girls know, their husbands know, and he enjoys that?
I am not sure what he is like, but I would offer something butI would certainly accept the offer. But be careful. At your age (I am a bit older) a little trip to the special clinic is embarrassing and a baby would be really awkward to have to tell him.
That is why, in general, once married I have come to the conclusion that poly relationships are perfect. Not that I have had one, but looking back, they would have been perfect for me and much more suited to the combination of marriage and extra marital sex.
Good luck, and let us know what you decide.
Anna xxx