Just had a little spat with OH, I asked him a few hours ago whether we were done with work and he said yes so I put my pj shorts on, then he decides we have to go to work so I just go in my pjs and I was trying to ask him what to do and he was being cryptic telling me I was wrong but not what was right. We came home and ran a bath and he barely made room for me, then we talk a bit and its basicly just me talking and him being silent, and I say I try to help him as much as possible because I know he's stressed but I'm stressed too and he does nothing to help me, and I list all the things I'm stressed about including that I have 30 quid left to get me home from uni every day until the end of the month.
so he goes on a money rant, because I asked him for a quid the other day, disputed giving him it back. And because he pays for everything in the house, and gives me 130 out the company, but he also earns that much by doing it. The reason I'm so skint is that I bought a car so I could live at home instead of at uni. Like he's just rubbed it my face everything he pays for. Yeah he buys the food, but I cook it, and actually I buy all our meat and pups dinner, I do the washing and cleaning, and look after pups as well as uni.
yeah he does a lot for me but I do a lot for him, I feel like he begrudges everything he does for me now.
hes so bad with communication and it's so stressful, if we're trying to do something it's like he's trying not to work as a team and if we have a problem he just won't talk about it.
i don't know what to do, I have put everytihng I have into this,vwithout him I have no home or money, just a car I can't drive until I pass my test, IF I pass my test. What am I meant to do if he leaves me? I love this man with every cell in my body but it's like it's just not enough for him, how do I be better?!
hes downstairs now pretending to work and I'm in bed after getting out the bath when he had his money rant. God I feel so worthless.
So many suicidal thoughts right now, if he weren't here I'd have my lighter out, I'm really struggling to feel any love from him lately, I don't want to lose him